How do you guys feel about paying for trips & experiences with your LTR especially when they are being feminine/submissive?
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mattyanon Admin 4y ago
absolutely never
mostly not.....
Paying = beta.
mcorleone1919 4y ago
Depends on how long you've been in the LTR and how expensive the trip is. It's good to reward your girl from to time for good behavior but you never want to go overboard or she will come to expect expensive gifts and lavish trips from you all the time. It's a balancing act with these hoes.
unplugged69 4y ago
Investing more than her is a recipe for disaster at any stage of the relationship.
Don't pay for her to holiday with you, it will lower your value in her eyes and she'll start to behave worse. Instead use that money to invest in yourself, become more knowledgeable, more fit, more rich and she will respect you even more than now.
If she can't afford an expensive holiday then try cheaper options, I found it's more of an adventure than 5 star hotels and it can lead to better bonding with an LTR.
Source: Myself decades ago behaving like a beta cuck and spending all my money to pay for luxury holidays with my LTRs at the time. Don't do it.
SgtBuchannon99 4y ago
Are you sure about this? I know lots of friends who travel the world with girls out of their league. Theres no fake attraction there, he is giving her experiences that people dream about.
I think experiences are the only thing you can spoil a girl with and she will gain attraction. You cant say the same thing about money, affection etc.
unplugged69 4y ago
That's the wrong mentality to have, if you think women are out of your league. You have to internalize the "I am the prize" mentality. Stop putting women on a pedestal.
Now here's the question, what are you trying to achieve with "giving her experiences"? You're trying to increase her attraction to you? Because you can increase her attraction to you without paying for her holiday.
If you want to go on holiday with a chick, most of them will be more than happy to. Get her to pay her half and she will still get the same experience.
Why do you think being beta bux is a good idea?
SgtBuchannon99 4y ago
I didnt say that i was doing it, i have friends with girls who i observe to be out of their league doing it. Traveling is alpha, and let me clarify something: These are guys who are traveling solo for work purposes, and the girl is tagging along. The accomodation is the same, the girl pays for her own daily food costs which isnt much because food is so much cheaper overseas (depending on country). She buys her own ticket, etc. She gets to be an accessory to someone with an exciting lifestyle.
Not some 50 year old beta buying trips to the Bahamas for a 20 year old sugar baby. Thats beta. Maybe i should have clarified earlier.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
If you want to take her and you can afford it then go ahead. Just don't think you're building relationship equity.