I’ve been reading old posts on the sub and here regarding the of the key aspects of women continuing to want to seek you out and sleep with you is being the “fun cool laid back non judgmental” guy in her life. You know the guy that gives her the feels and fucks her like her plugged in bf can’t. However I’ve started to run into the situations where my fwb and new plate are “too open” with me.

For example my fwb went out of state to see her ex. (Yea she’s stupid but what women isn’t). Well she gets there and immediately starts texting me and trying to video call me. I entertain some of her texts until she tells me something along the lines of “he was actually good in bed this time. I guess you have competition now.” My response was something along the lines of “yea that shouldn’t be too hard to do” in a very comical and exaggerated way. Was this some sort of jealousy shit test that I passed by accident?

She also tells me that he makes her feel so insecure (lol women, why are you there then) and that I treat her way better. I guess this could have been a comfort test but I didn’t care to engage because I know treating women like stray cats keeps them coming back. And if I’m already “treating her better” I might be already giving too much to begin with.

I don’t care that she’s getting dick elsewhere. I consciously and subconsciously know that she’s sleeping with other people, well because I’m doing the same.I just don’t want to hear about it if that makes sense. I’m not blabbing out every time I’m with my other girl, I don’t see it as necessary. I’ve also done enough sidebar reading to know that overt verbal communication is a no no 90% of the time.

Have any of you had good results with small amounts overt verbal communication as long as you have the backbone to back up the “punishment?”

Also

Has casually mentioning other hookups that you’ve had worked for any of you to flip the script on plates so to speak. Could this be a jealousy test to see if she can get a rise out of me?