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Nadox12

Posted 4y ago in offtopic - Permalink - Locked - 551 Views

Hey guys,

I approached a chick yesterday and asked her today if she wants to go for a walk. She responded a few hours later. The conversation went like (was not in english)

Me: hey (nickname), do you feel like spontaneously go for a tea

Her: Sorry I am busy today

Her: I think at the moment its difficult with me (makes no sense in english but something like "I dont know if I can" or "I dont know if I am rdy", sounds like low interest or another guy but dont know)

Usually I would write something like "I see, hit me up if you are rdy"

Do you see any possibility to turn things around or its over?

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Howdoiverify 4y ago

I don't know how to quote here, but I've experienced this at some point in my LTR. "These bitches will text you back at 1 am knowing you’re asleep, trying to continue your conversation, when they could’ve made plans to stay up with you at 1 am" Everytime I called her out she was so damn salty.

Nadox12 4y ago

Really good reply I had the same thought.

I was thinking to reply with "Get your shit together" after I left her on read 1-2 days and then I am going to text her in 2-3 weeks again

Edit: I am gaming other girls and I will continue doing that but for me its just important to know how to handle girls like that. Sometimes I have the feeling you have to withdraw and attack later

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Nadox12 4y ago

Good Point.

I am pretty new to TRP and sometimes I have the feeling when we talking from attention hoes we are talking from the typical 21 year college girl who is instagram addicted. I am from Germany/Berlin and I have the impression the girls (I am aware women are women) here still are a bit different. Its a cultural thing maybe. She is obviously playing but I talked with her for 20-30minutes and she seemed like a funny girl. I personally dont give a fuck about her.

Maybe I will withdraw attention as you said

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Nadox12 4y ago

Interesting! So the only logic step here is to withdraw attention and to write her in a few weeks and to speculate that I text her in the right moment?

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Nadox12 4y ago

That sounds alpha as fuck! I will do that and adopt this mindset. Thank you very much for your advices!

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