Hi guys,
from time to time I meet a girl that have boyfriends but still are up to hang out. Sometimes they just say when I am suggestion to go drink a tee "yeah we can hangout as friend" or "just to let you know, I have a boyfriend, but I am still down".
I am paying really extension of the frame I am setting. I try to be flirty as possible so she actually knows (she knows anyway) why I am talking to her.
Are those girls curious about me and still down to fuck if I play my cards right? Or is it just a waste of time.
Btw. I dont simp, I dont validate her etc. So I am not an orbiter for her
What do you guys think?
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
This means "give me attention but no hope of sex".
Same.
Actually I think you're getting the "this is a date" message across just fine, because she is telling you straight that it's "friends only".
They are not attracted, there is nothing to suggest that they are DTF.
"Playing your cards right" ....... I mean, there's a remote chance...... but basically no. They are not attracted.
Girls who are attracted will ask "is this a date?" or squeal with excitement and say "oooooo a date!"...... or just go along with it. "Ok, but just as friends" or "yes but I have boyfriend" is another way of saying let's just be friends. In other words: not attracted.
I think you are being friendly and flirty but not attractive enough. Be less reactive, less flirty, but TOUCH HER MORE. Set a sexual rather than jovial frame.
Nadox12 4y ago
Thanks for that input. You are clearly right, i have to work on building attraction!
unplugged69 4y ago
You treat women with boyfriends or husbands the exact same way. Treat the boyfriend thing like a shit test, take them out, flirt and do push pull, break the touch barrier early, hold eye contact and go in for the kiss.
There's no machine that allows you to read women's minds and even if that existed it would probably drive men insane. No the only way you can truly know if they want you is to isolate and escalate, if they're down for kissing and fucking you have your answer.
If they say let's just be friends and spend every day talking over text, then you know they want you as an orbiter and you can NEXT these bitches.
Nadox12 4y ago
Thanks bro, I thought the same. I still will game these girls as usually!
redhawkes 2 4y ago
Actions>words.
Either ignore their bf asd, or just tell her "I just met you and you're already telling me your problems", change subject.
Game as usual. Her bf is not your problem.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
You could also use them for preselection by taking them with you when you go out getting new plates.
MrSupreme 4y ago
It seems the "I have a bf" shit test may indicate the least attraction possible while you're interacting with her.that or they're really trying to convey how slutty they can be by letting you know she's getting dicked already
Edit:typo
Hanscheezburger 4y ago
yes it depends on how they say it. you really have to read the mood
"No I have a boyfriend" with a disgusted face like she smelled a dead rat = not interested