lets say your family meets you up with a girl through other family, who lives in a 2nd world country. Girl is somewhat religious, young (18) never had a bf or did anything before... long distance talking for 6 months, and then she comes over to your country.
What kind of game to run here?
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
The game of sort your fucking life out, this makes zero sense unless you're a religious freak.
quietus 4y ago
dunno what u mean
unplugged69 4y ago
The same game you run on every women, sure you adapt it slightly but don't over think it so much. If you have to waste time creating a game plan for her and asking questions like "Okay so there's this one girl" you are doing it wrong. The whole point of redpill is to NOT GIVE A FUCK and have enough abundance to internalize that.
quietus 4y ago
Its too hard for me to have abundance because the quality of women here is so dog shit so this seems kind of like a once in a lifetime chance, and also im KHV
unplugged69 4y ago
I recommend moving somewhere with better prospects, but until then you need to pretend you have abundance. The RP basics are still the same, the date format is the same, and you can't act clingy or double text or ask her for attention and validation. She's the one qualifying herself to you, ultimately the reason we preach abundance is because it helps you internalize the "you are the prize" mentality. You could do that anyway without 3 plates but it's harder.
quietus 4y ago
OK i mean i dont act clingy at all, or ask for attention tbh. I made a few blunders because I was confused if she actually liked me or not, so I asked her but I seemed depressed bc i thought she didnt like me and she caught on that. Its because she doesnt give me any indication that she likes me, which i think its maybe cuz the culture or she is just inexperienced. Or she doesnt wanna seem like a slut? She seems very career oriented and stuff, also cooks etc... she just seems complete opposite of these western whores.
unplugged69 4y ago
Yeah don't verbalize that shit, don't ask her if she likes you, don't act depressed because she doesn't. All that signals BETA. Remember you are 100% confident and if a girl doesn't like you that's her issue not yours and she's missing out. That's the attitude you need to have, whether she's from the east or west.
In my opinion women from other countries are better at hiding their inner slut because of societal shaming, but ultimately they are exactly the same as our western whores and become more like that the longer than stay in our western gynocentric environment.
quietus 4y ago
yea i fucked up but im in a real bad spot atm too from various things so I just couldnt help it. U think its too late? Idk she said she still likes me... yea i agree with u but i think its still better than a straight u pwestern hoe. especially if religion is in the mix.
I also think maybe bveing a bit beta is okay with this scenario since i feel like i would scare her off if i was too aloof or something idk.. since its the first time shes in a diff country too.
unplugged69 4y ago
Giving her too much beta at first won't help, this isn't purplepill. Ask her out and go on a date, if she's not receptive then imagine you have other options and move on
quietus 4y ago
we do hang out but I cant seem to make it "sexual".. it feels like her anti slut defense is super high
MrSupreme 4y ago
To make it sexual just be touching her all over,shameless and purposefully,touch her and if the vibes are nice just straight up ask about her sexual experiences
unplugged69 4y ago
That's on you not on her, as long as you can meet her alone and isolate then you're good.
Holding eye contact, teasing her, touching her, spiking and polarizing the conversation, being hot and cold, that does not get ASD to flare up. You need to first build FEELS, touch her and kiss her. Once you're done with that and you want to move on to sex, then you may encounter ASD and LMR if you do not play it carefully but you're not at that stage yet.
quietus 4y ago
u dont get it man its not like western girls, i tried to put my arm around her and stuff but she doesnt want to atm. she seems to take it ultra slow... also its her first time with any guy. on top of that im clueless when it comes to this... maybe its just over.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Marriage game. It's how I got my wife. She was going to be a pump and dump but she was so cool I kept her around for the last 17 years.
Boris1998 4y ago
How did you make sure that your wife didn't become another shitty western when she came here? A lot of dudes with foreign wives complain about that, but they all seem like blue pill with shitty frame and no knowledge of the marriage game.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
I just showed her examples of bad female behaviour and the consequences of it. She knows in no uncertain terms how lucky she is to not be like those women. It's basically dread game but instead of me getting other women, she dreads living alone for the next 40 years and having to work and have no prospective suitors.
It has changed over the course of her life. At first it was other women providing dread. When women get older, it's lack of security that provides dread.