Met her at a gathering at my place, didn't get to k close because her friends were there and protected her. I displayed value and it was clear she was into me, some light kino and I showed social proof. I got her number and her friend told me the following day she really likes me.
Messaged her a couple days later saying "come over", I am aware this was too forward and may have triggered her asd, she was watching her college lectures
Me: "Come over"
Her: "Watching my missed lectures atm sorry x"
Me: "Let me know if you change your mind"
Her: "Maybe x"
Me: "Bring me alcohol and we're even" (inside joke relating back to a convo we had on the night)
Her: "Ok will remember for next time :P"
Messaged her the next day: Me: "Tuesday next week you free let's do something. Also speed up your replies"
(She responded positively to the rude/bossy dominance on the night and did it jokingly so I said this in the same spirit)
Her: "I will be in Spain on Tuesday :(" *Leaves me missed call
Me: "Shame x"
24 hours later there is no reply. Should I message again and go about setting something up or just next her? I know she is into me but don't want to message again and appear too needy. I'm also aware she didn't tell me when she is back or when she is free which isn't a good sign.
TLDR: 2 failed logistics attempts. How to proceed?

whytehorse2021 4y ago
Just ask when she's free
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
he did. she randomly "went to spain"
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unplugged69 4y ago
You're being too needy, bitches love to play hard to get to test if you have anything better going on in your life.For example if you had 10/10 models that were constantly draining your balls, would you waste your time texting this "maybe" whore? Fuck no
Never say "let me know if you change your mind" and if a bitch ever says "maybe" then you soft next. This is covered in the book Models by Mark Manson. If she's not "Fuck Yes!" about you, then you have better things to do.
This seems counter productive, why would ignoring her work here? Simple, because you already built some rapport and if you leave it hanging she'll think about you more, like why aren't you texting her? have you found someone better ? was she too dismissive of you? Women are very insecure and begin to doubt themselves very quickly.
You should not text or call her anymore, go game other women, if she text a something lame you should leave her on read and only reply if she says something that catches your attention. Invite her for a drink at a bar if she changes her attitude, then use the tried and tested playbook. Let me know if you don't know what that is.
SickPuppy 4y ago
Can you please share the playbook, thanks
unplugged69 4y ago
Sure, this is documented somewhere in the sidebar but here's the short version:
Never do dinner or movie dates, they're awkward and it's harder to talk and build a connection. Instead you should do drinks at a bar or an activity.
Let's go for the easy format, drinks at a bar. You need to remember a few key things here:
Don't talk about boring shit like work and school, find interesting topics.
Rather than asking her lots of interview questions, ask her about a topic she seems into and then ask how she feels about that, her dreams and aspirations, etc.
Tease her and treat her like your bratty younger sister, this will make you seem higher status and she will try to please you more.
Polarize the conversation and be hot and cold, don't be afraid to disagree with her. Example, if she says she's from California then say you hate California and explain that it can never work out between you two. Obviously don't do that with a serious tone.
Break the touch barrier early, conventional dating says to kiss at the end of the night but you're playing the game on hard mode doing that. Instead don't be afraid to touch her, when you're leading her through a door put your hand lightly on her lower back, like you would do with a girlfriend. Or a big crowd, take her hand and lead her through the crowd. Take her hand and point to a ring and ask her about the story behind it, get creative with ways to touch her but don't be all over her like you're desperate.
Make eye contact and wait for her to break it, bonus points if you touch her while you do that.
Go to multiple venues, I like to go to 3 different bars on the first date, it makes it seem like more time has passed.
Kiss early! By the time you leave the first venue or have recently arrived at the second venue you should try to kiss her. If you've been doing it right you've been touching her for some time now and sitting close to her. Make eye contact, lean into her slowly and kiss. The worst case scenario is that she gives you the cheek, if that happens then act like it's all cool and you've seen this before, like it's inevitable and she will give in eventually. So basically do the same shit you've been doing and try again later, your second and third kissing attempt have higher chances of success and you have time to try again because you didn't wait until the end of the night.
How to kiss? Obviously use tongue but don't over do it, kiss for a few seconds and then pull away. You see a lot of guys make a mistake here, they get into long makeout sessions and they quickly burn through the sexual tension they've been building up. If you're only kissing her for a few seconds you'll maintain that aspect of teasing. Don't talk about the kiss, don't be that beta nerd that says "well, that just happened!". No, for you this is normal, it's not your first rodeo. You continue doing the same shit as before, tease her, push her away, pull her in, kiss her again when you feel like it.
At your place you need to let her get comfortable before you start touching, teasing, kissing and more. Here you'll encounter LMR but it's easy to deal with once you've got the right knowledge.
Do you have any questions? Shall I explain LMR?
redhawkes 2 4y ago
Nr 2 is the dumbest shit after interview mode. This is how betas become emotional tampons. You're not her therapist. Instead of questions, use statements and let her talk, then tease and lead the conversation where you want.
The thing is to create the emotional rollercoaster, but don't ride it yourself.
unplugged69 4y ago
You're absolutely right I didn't take time to explain that properly. Taking her on an emotional rollercoaster is indeed the goal and can take time to master, timing is very important. However asking her how she feels about something is not being an emotional tampon, don't conflate asking a short question that with her wasting 2 hours talking about her abusive ex-bf, THAT would be using you as an emotional tampon.
Women can easily be led this way, if you ask her to describe and feel something amazing, she can associate that feeling with you. If you add push-pull, teasing, polarizing the conversation, etc it can create the "feels" they're all seeking like a bunch of zombies.
SickPuppy 4y ago
That's brilliant, thanks for taking the time to write this up
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Step back. You must take a step back too, to avoid being a simp.
haha right
wtf
She's being ridiculous. Next.