You just don't understand women. Those nonsense conversations are actually emotional communication and the topic is irrelevant. If you were more savvy you could turn it into a conversation about zombie movies or something you like and she can emote all day while saying how she felt when Negan smashed that guy's head in.

You also fail to appreciate what a good woman brings to the table. They are nurturers, agreeable, soft, smell good, and are in tune with human behaviour at a level most men aren't. I can remember a time when schools taught women home economics(cooking, sewing,etc) and men shop class(trades). Before my time they had finishing schools for women where they learned how to be good wives. I'll explain why I added these in a bit.

My guess is you're running into a bunch of modern women and you think you can red pill them. There is a red pill for women but it's not what you're doing. What you're doing is confirming their blue pill beliefs that all men are dogs and just want sex. Here is the actual red pill for women:

The Official Axioms of RPW:

The belief that if you want to have a good partner, you have to be a good partner. This means having some understanding of what men want in a partner, and in particular, what your man wants in a partner, and then using that information to become the best version of yourself you can be. For this reason, self-improvement and self-awareness are fundamental components of RPW.

Truth is more important than feelings and truth is measured by results.

The understanding men and women have different natures and preferences. They have different strengths and weaknesses, and different sexual strategies.

The fundamental SMP transaction is, Women are gatekeepers of sex, men are gatekeepers of commitment.

The acceptance that we are all flawed. In that umbrella we hold the belief that many red pill terms are largely true about us. AWALT, hypergamy, shit testing, etc. However the meaning of these terms is open for debate.

The idea that relationships generally work better if the man is in charge. It is a preferred relationship to both the man and the woman. This is due to the inherent dominant nature of men and submissive nature of women.

The ultimate goal for a woman is a long lasting relationship with a man who she loves, respects, and is attracted to.

Every woman ultimately bears agency for her outcome and satisfaction with life. One of her most important responsibilities is choosing a man worthy of her trust and devotion.