Mature question. I am M 24. I have symptoms of ED this is something I will see a doctor about. How about I am not sure if I also have premature ejaculation problems. It seems PE is when you ejaculate less than a min within penetration. However if I go a slow to medium pace I can sure last over a minute, but if I go very hard and fast I can for sure ejaculate within a minute, and my whole life I thought every guys was like this too. The same case with masturbation, again please be mature but if you are a guy can you please let me know if this isn’t normal. Thank you!
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mattyanon Admin 4y ago
no, that's pretty fast.
It's pretty fast.
Women are flexible. Tell her you're gonna fuck her and cum in her and that she'll get hers during round 2, she'll be happy so long as she's attracted. Frankly if they're attracted enough they'll only care about pleasing you.
In an ideal world you fuck her long enough for her to cum. It's not essential, don't get worried about it, but that's the ideal. Women vary a LOT in how long they take to cum..... if she's sufficiently wound up from foreplay she'll cum faster, so that might be a good route forwards.
Don't forget though... attraction is 95% of this. So whatever happens DO NOT BEHAVE UNATTRACTIVELY.
Good: "You're so hot I couldn't help myself"
Bad: "Oh god I'm really sorry, I always do that, I'm such a loser".
You get the idea.
helpfulguy22 4y ago
Sorry my question is more about me not really the women. I just want to know if I have premature ejaculation before I go see a doctor, basically the fact that I can last longer than a minute if I go slow to medium pace but only under a minute with fast and hard, is that considered normal or can that be considered premature.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
technically premature ejaculation means "before insertion into vagina", so I doubt a doctor would help much.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Most of the guys I've been fucked by cum in about 10min. I'm the only guy I know that can go for an hour or longer. I even had an antidepressant that made it so I couldn't orgasm for weeks(fluoxetine). Most women take about 45 min to warm up to the point of orgasm. I usually fire my wife up 45min before we fuck and she cums pretty quickly.
The key hormone here is prolactin. You want to be around 5-6 before orgasm and 12-16 after orgasm. Two key symptoms of hypoprolactinemia(low prolactin) are ED and premature orgasm. Tell your Dr about this and get your levels checked.
itsentirelypossible 4y ago
How do you warm her up? I kiss around neck, tits etc. Playfully. After some time of kissing and playing around she's usually wet and then I play with her with my fingers and maybe after that I lick her. She usually comes in 20-30 minutes after starting. We're both 22 so I guess this plays a role too.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
I just indicate she's getting fucked later. I just say "you're getting your brains fucked out tonight" or whatever. I might throw in some light kino but all it really takes is just poking her with my boner and she's raring to go.
NotADowner 4y ago
You’re a guy who has been fucked by other guys? Maybe I’m reading it wrong just curious
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Yeah I'm bi.
NotADowner 4y ago
Does your wife know this? Idk maybe I’m just retarded but idk how somebody could be alpha and get fucked by other dudes
whytehorse2021 4y ago
No, she just thinks I fuck other women. The gay community probably has more alphas than the straight community.
SickPuppy 4y ago
Yes thats PE bro. Experiment with SSRIs like Paroxetine or Dapoxetine. You can also experiment with Phenibut (careful though, never use phenibut more than once a week due to the risk of physical dependence). They turn me into a fucking machine for hours.
User4566 4y ago
I get thus sometimes. When you jerk off, go SLOW and literally STOP when you feel you're about to blow. Set time limits to last long. You see, the problem is when we jerk off, we try to bust our loads fast. By doing this, we train our body to bust fast aswell.
So next time you jerk off, try to aim for 3 minutes. Then 5. Then 10. So on...
When you feel you're about to cum, stop and take a 30 second breather and think about stuff that doesn't arouse you at all which I'll leave you to decide on that.