You need to be a little more present and be more affectionate. Seduction is a game of push and pull, not just push. It's generally better to lean on the side absence, but if you take it too far, she will just move on.

As for the guy in the pick, she could be interested in him, or just trying to make you jealous. Either way, it doesn't really matter.

All in all, you are already in a good spot and she seems like she has high interest in you. Where you want to take that is really up to you now.

sexualize the conversation when you're together next time. Watching movies or whatever at your place sounds nice for a second date,where there should already be some kissing and maybe more, report back when it happens

You should escalate on dates. Same day lay is very doable. And expected. And appreciated.

Otherwise you tun the risk of being friend zoned.

Escalating causes her to be more attracted to you. Because it shows balls. Win-win.

Yo bro,

She snaped me 2 pictures with him. one at target and at a game. She is always with a friend tough in each picture.

You see, women are interesting creatures. She clearly has interest for you and hockey boy is the safe play (there for her etc.) Seems as she loves attention and when you are doing the opposite - not giving her your undivided attention, she gets more interested (because of questions - why etc.).

I suggest to do what you like to do not her. Show her your life and your values, interests, if she is complimentary she will stay. Cooking together and watching show is great start!

ter 2 day she added me again, I accepted it. We would snap each other but never talk. Sometime on new years eve she snapped me and she said "do you have your licenses?" I said "no but I don't get mine till march." She said "I got mine today!" That's cool and all but ok I thought. She started snapping me more that night. I sent her a text saying "hey" She said "heyyyy" I asked one of my girl friends if that meant anything and she said she probably likes me. 3 days later I asked if she wanted to hang out. She said yes. She didn't know what to do so I thought of doing something bold. She didn't care on what we do she said. I told her that I am taking her out. She said "Okok betttt" When we were supposed to go out a snow storm hit, and her parents wouldn't let her go (she is a new driver at the time) We planned the same thing but the week after. We ate dinner and talked a little, she likes soccer and being with friends

Ok, this is all fine.

. When she was dropping me off she said do you want your flannel back? I said "do you want it?" She said "sure" and that was it that night.

Shouldn't have given her something.

She said "sure" and that was it that night. We planned on going sking but she doesn't have her pass this year. That is as far I have gotten with her with plans. She saw me cooking once and said you should make us dinner one night so that can be an option. The thing I have doubts on is that she likes hockey boys and I do swim.

um.... not relevant.

But today they walked passed me just those two though. They looked like they were having a good conversation. It sucked a little, I dont know if I can still try, because they are by each other more. Do you think I should still try more or do what I am still doing now with her?

[Edit] She likes the show Euphoria, I asked her if she wanted to binge the show with me because ive never seen the show. I gave two options skiing 2.watch euphoria I told her we should ski. Should I just pursue that instead of skiing?

Ok.

You're new to women and new to TRP. You're being very nice and you're hoping that "friends first" will lead to the relationship you crave.

Meanwhile, you are BORING HER.

She likes you, but you are not solving her sexual frustration. Some other guy will fix this for her, and she'll blame you.

I am assuming here you are both of legal age.

Here's what she wants: PASSION.

Here's what she is getting from you: FRIENDS.

You have two problems: oneitis and lack of sexuality.

Oneitis you fix by getting more options with more girls by meeting more girls and escalating with more girls. You have to learn this, but for now here's how you deal with this one girl:

Meet her in a way that could lead to sex. You're living with parents, she is too I guess, so this is hard. You need to be somewhere fairly private with her. Then you find a way to kiss her, feel her up, passionately.

Now passion is hard to express without it feeling forced, so here's roughly how you do it:

Meet her. Look into her eyes, look into her lips. If she's into you she'll get excited by this. Look at her like a hungry wolf looks at its dinner. Blink slowly, lick your lips, look at her lips.

When you get chance, you SLOWLY press her against a wall, press into her, kiss her neck, lick up to her ear, round to her mouth, and kiss her like you fucking mean it. Then you STOP and pull away and let her chase a bit...... next time you do it, you go further (eg grabbing her tits)..... and you keep going back and forth like this. This drives women mental.

Because you do all this slowly, she has plenty of chance to stop things if she's too freaked out. If this happens simply back off and try again later (because sometimes girls say "no" and they mean "not now"). If you try this 2-3 times and it's no-go, then give up on her and walk away.

TL;DR: stop being her ladyfriend and be a man.