For a few months now I have been meeting a chubby woman about once a week. She is extremely nice to me, always cooks dinner, sucks my cock for half an hour and then we have sex. She also really always wants sex. The next morning she makes me breakfast and wishes me a nice week. She always replies to my messages immediately and regularly gives me gifts without me giving her anything. Sometimes it feels unreal because I've never met a woman where I make so little effort and she still likes me.
The problem: she's chubby and not really pretty. I would never introduce her to my family or friends either. But I have a buddy who has been meeting only chubby women for a long time and swears by it because it's much easier and more pleasant, you don't have to constantly stress yourself out with stupid fame bitches who have 10000000000000 dickpicks in their inbox anyway.
What do you think about it? What are your experiences?
DextroShade 2y ago
All that is well and good, but if I don't find her attractive my dick won't lift so it's a non-starter.
joematazz123 2y ago
I also have problems with that, but I found out it is more about the person itself and how you like are overall. I had a quite good girl once that was actually completely awkward and super-introverted, I felt like raping her in the end, so my dick would never lift again on that girl.
STAYShredded 2y ago
Agree with everything you just said… it’s typical SMV value and mating strategy bro. If ur above her level she will simp for you (just like guys simp for girls). If you were to LTR her, you would see this diminish as you would with any LTR although it’s a higher starting point in quality of life for you. The idea is the more you improve yourself the hotter the girls who act like this towards you. I personally have a couple chicks I see in the same light (ie I’m low key ashamed to be seen with them in public) and it subconsciously communicates abundance to them bc you guinenly do not care if she were to fuck off therefore she wants you more lol.
Keep these type of girls as orbiters, they are low maintenance plates and help you care less when you drop your better plates.
Naturally you’ll find yourself doing push pull on these girls based on how strong ur options are at the time and therefore they get hooked on you. This is how you alpha widow girls (the best feeling in the world ngl)
Good luck dude
joematazz123 2y ago
Wise words bro, I really appreciate that.
Nadox12 2y ago
Thats quite interesting. Wouldn't it then make sense to treat every woman as if she had low SMV? Or do I have to run different game with women who have (compared to me) lower, same or higher smv?
STAYShredded 2y ago
Bang on my dude, try treating every girl as if they have low SMV bc they may start believing you have a higher SMV than you make out… fake it till you make it bro! Only difference, girls with higher SMV are less likely to orbit around as they also have quality options
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Your life, your choice.
It's all about relative SMV.
Nadox12 2y ago
How would ýou actually define SMV? Is it just the physical appearance?
Whats with intelligenz, status, money, etc?
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
It's how attractive you are and how many options you have.
Attractive to some women if you can display it as social intelligence.
Book smarts is beta - you might be able to do quantum mechanics, but that's only useful to her as a source of money.
yes
only as status.
Money spent on her is outright beta / provider behaviour.
Hanscheezburger 2y ago
The ones who've always been fat know they are fat so they'll make up for it in other ways such as cooking.
A hot, entitled chick who turned fat after she met you though will keep that same entitled attitude
joematazz123 2y ago
It is the worst deal if you have a once hot chick that is now ugly and chubby but still a pain in the arse.
Durek_The_Bald 2y ago
Because she's overweight, her SMV is lower. Because her SMV is lower, you are her best hypergamous option. Women tend to treat men well when they see them as their best option - and poorly when they think they could do better.
That means the best relationships are those where his SMV is higher than hers. Or as Patrice O'Neal said: "The best relationships are the ones where she loves you, and you like her".
If you find that the women who sees you in this way, and treats you like that, aren't attractive enough for you to keep your interest (every man has an attractiveness threshold), the only solution is to become more attractive yourself - so that the ones who are slightly below you are still attractive enough to do it for you.
joematazz123 2y ago
"Women tend to treat men well when they see them as their best option" is a pretty good point, I always had the experience with women that are hot and know it. They treat you like shit as there are 10 other guys orbiting that would immediately go out with her.