I find them to be very similar concepts. When a girl is insecure in a relationship, she will crave more affection than normal. This will cause her to go to extreme lengths to be rewarded affection (non-sexual attention). When a girl is fed too much affection she can lose attraction, she is overwhelmed with too much non-sexual attention. She may start to pull back and shit test.
I notice that when one of my plates found out i was talking to other girls (we are not exclusive) she got jealous and needy and next time we met up she needed drastically more affection and cuddles/kisses. OF course she initiated everything not me.
On the other hand when you smother a girl and hang out too often, she wont initiate affection as often. Thoughts?
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Attention is the currency of the sisterhood. Most women can get unlimited sexual attention so non-sexual attention is what they value. Anything given too freely has no value.
SgtBuchannon99 2y ago
From a guy they are already fucking, what is considered non sexual attention? Especially if you meet up only to fuck in a fwb dynamic.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Talking to them or doing things together.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Yeah, basically you're right on all of it.
Needing a lot of affection is insecurity. Insecurity makes girls more interested, motivated and attracted. Too much affection from you kills all the above.