When I was in college, I made a lot of progress running game. I was able to lose my virginity from night game, and even had a few day game lays. At the same time, a lot of girls thought I was creepy. I was a KHHV until I was 20 and probably autistic as a kid, so interacting with girls was (and perhaps still is) totally unnatural to me. Half the time I would hit it off really well with a girl, and half the time I would come off extremely awkward and disconnected, especially if I'm anxious I'll just shut down entirely. I didn't care at the time because I was in college and there wasn't any accountability, but now I've just graduated and moved to a very liberal west coast city for tech.
I'm afraid if I try day game and come off as creepy that I could gain a bad reputation and possibly jeopardize my career. At the same time, you have to be outcome independent for game so you can take risks and polarize. But I can't be outcome independent, I'm dependent on the outcome that girls don't spread a negative reputation about me that could ultimately come back to my workplace.
TLDR; How do I learn game as beginner without risking my reputation and therefore my career?
xosta 2y ago
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Are you approaching at work? If not, can't ruin your career.
Are you doing anything illegal while approaching? If not, can't ruin your career
Are you easily recognizable such as jeff bezos, such that anyone could recognize your place of work simply by seeing you? If no you can't ruin your career or reputation by approaching.
Don't overthink it. At best you'll be a passing memory to onlookers and they'll be envious that you have the balls to do it even if you fail
PHALLUS 2y ago
Agreed.
Furthermore, women can read your mind when approach them and they know what you are thinking, sex. Women think men think about sex all the time. Forget about what they think, because they don't even know what they think, let alone what you think. Is this making sense? It's not supposed to, womenology 101.
You can practice by approaching non-women and having conversations. Walk up to old people, other men and such. This way you understand what women "feel" 99% of the time when talking to men, basically waiting for the interaction to be over with. Have you ever talked to an old person on the street? They have so much to tell you and so little information to convey.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Don't shit where you eat. If you are in a liberal west coast city anything you do outside of work literally does not matter. There are so many fucking people from all over the world here the chances of you running into the same person twice is slim to none if you aren't frequenting the same places all the time. It's rat utopia or w/e. Go ham, get practice. Try out different things, find what works for you and perfect it. You won't develop a reputation or w/e. If that bothers you so much, just drive a bit to get practice.