Hello people,
I'm a little down right now because I've been turned down. I've been dealing with cold approaching for a year now and I'm wondering what is actually possible? I feel like I am very stagnant right now because I would not have gotten a number for 15 conversations. How good can you get in cold approaching? Can you have sex with one in 10 women at best? What should be my aim? What is realistically possible? Maybe some of you can give their career again and say how your development looked, that would help me just at least a bit.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
I haven't done day game since high school but I had about a 66% success rate. I guess I just learned really quickly who to ask out and that upped my odds. I usually got shot down by tall chicks, popular chicks, and rich chicks. So I'd go approach short younger chicks from poor families and they'd fuck me immediately. I got hooked on Asians and have fucked nothing else for like 20 years. I don't think I've been shot down by any Asian. Even perfect 10s.
coolsocks00 1 2y ago
Your goal should be to improve by small increments at a time. Any goal that will require a bit of work but is within your grasp, e.g. getting your first lay from cold approaching, is good. Then make new ones.
IMO you shouldnt worry about what the limits of cold approaching are. Once you are perfectly fine with approaching and gaming women you can just employ this skill at convenient times, so that you stop thinking about it with a results oriented mindset.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
the best players fuck 3% of girls they chat up.
practice and learning
probably less
what do you want?
3%
Are you in shape? look good? talk well? know how to lead? arrange instadates? tell girls what to do, never asking anything?
Nadox12 2y ago
Yes I am in Shape.
Yes I look good.
I dont talk well, I mean I have the impression I dont know how to build first initial attraction. Maybe some advice?
I am not sure if I know how to lead.
No I do not arrange instadates because of the time I dont have the feeling I created the attraction but I already did that
Yeah I ask to much I guess I should talk more in statements
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
These are the things to work on - there's lots of material out there.
Also - find excuses to touch her.
Nadox12 2y ago
You are right my friend, thinks for you valuable input!
PHALLUS 2y ago
3% (I would say 4,8 but this is semantics) seems to be the golden number. You can apply it to anything in life and it holds true.