I just got into a relationship but I want to continue being FWB with my ex.
Those of you who have done this, what are some pros and cons or to be blunt, is it worth it? I'm not new to cheating but now it's not some random girl but my ex. I appreciate your responses.
pfeilmacher 3y ago
She's probably cheating on you, as well. So go for it.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Why do you think that?
jormigaso 3y ago
AWALT dude
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
To assume every girl in a relationship is always cheating is some black pill bullshit.
jormigaso 3y ago
keep believing in unicorns then
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Male sexual strategy is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. It sucks for women so they created this "cheating" BS.
Scorpion69_ 3y ago
yup, cheating has always sounded like female talking to me
whytehorse2021 3y ago
I can't remember who noticed this but he was saying that there was this push that started in the 80s about cheating. Before that it was just guys being guys. Wealthy men have had mistresses for centuries. Brothels used to exist in every town.
pofkaf 1 3y ago
Why did you commit to a monogamous relationship even though you want to have sex with other women? That's very weak and beta. You were too scared to tell your girlfriend "No, I don't want an exclusive relationship right now."
You have two options. One, end the relationship. Two, cheat and suffer the consequences later. Your choice.
helpfulguy22 3y ago
I agree with this, and I know this is correct because I have been in the positon. It is extremely weak and beta. Redpill is about understanding female nature not sabotaging females. If you want multiple partners just keep ur gf as a plate, don’t go exclusive and then cheat. It only shows weakness.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
I'm expecting disagreement from other posters but choose, do you want a relationship or do you want access to multiple women at once?
Why bother being in a relationship in your situation? The only reason to get into a relationship with a girl is if you're looking for that connection and you're sick of meaningless sex and replacing broken plates.
I'm not advocating for looking for relationships or finding "the one" here but what you're wanting to do is antithetical to the premise of a relationship.
You're going to be spending so much of your time making up bullshit lies to cover your tracks and trying to keep a story straight and eventually it is going to inevitably collapse in on itself in flames.
I'd say just demote her and fuck both of them non-exclusively.
To be clear I'm not white-knighting for the LTR, you're just in for a lot of cover-up effort and we both know it's not a decent thing to do. Hence why you're asking how to go about it
Edit: after re-reading, you may not have been asking to go about it, my take still stands though
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Thats weak. It just complicates things. Make it clear that the relationship needs to be open on your end and closed on hers if it's so imporant for you to have her to yourself.