I want to stop thinking about this girl I even blocked her on everything I seen her about a week ago (my last post) she said to my friend she wanted to see me when I was at my friends house, and then I made a complete fool of myself got kicked in the face, nose broken she rejected me obviously (this my former fwb we used to have sex very often), got so drunk and she showed me her screen saver with her and another dude.
So after I block her, a friend was supposed to come round and grab some keys, I was already with friends drinking beer and when my friend knocks on the door there she was with her new guy whose half my size I just wanted to annoy him and said I tried to get her pregnant(stupid I know). I handed over the keys and because I had been drinking beer I walk out after them to go fuck this up guy for coming to my flat, he knows (live in an apartment btw) and there’s even more people outside so in my head I just stopped and thought they’ve got more witnesses than me and went back in. And I drink more and get more drunk, I ended up sending this guy voice messages saying “I’m gonna fuck you up” “you disrespect me and your gonna get fucked”.
Ever since I just can’t stop thinking about her, I literally haven’t slept in 3 days.
Can someone give me some advice?
Blingo123 3y ago
Btw this guy knows I was shagging her before. He also sent me a message saying “last time you fucked her you told her to fuck off” it was obvious it was her writing this.
NotGoodWithUsernames 3y ago
Seek a therapist's help. The issue here is you. You behaviour is totally blue-pilled.
Blingo123 3y ago
I’m not actually a bad person it’s just when I drink I drink too much. Certainly not blue pilled ethier when I’m sober.
NotGoodWithUsernames 3y ago
You either are or you aren't red pilled. A red pilled man who has his shit together knows his alcohol limits. It's called discipline. Alcohol is not an excuse to act like a clown.
Blingo123 3y ago
Yeah I probably don’t know my alcohol limits and just drink and drink till i black out. I guess it’s time to see Alcoholics Anonymous then.
Blingo123 3y ago
I’ve literally just rang Alcoholics Anonymous and going to a meeting later today
NotGoodWithUsernames 3y ago
Thats the best gift you gave yourself probably in along time and don't get it twisted even that takes guts. Good job man, and good luck.
Blingo123 3y ago
Thanks man, just actually got back from the second meeting now. They’re all older people but because I stay at home after college I’ve nothing to do, don’t want to meet my loser friends really because all we’d do is drink. So it’s nice to at least even if they are all losers to go socialize with other people.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Good on you man
ChadifiedAsian 3y ago
Congrats bro
SeasonedRP 1 3y ago
Find another girl.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Illegal and prosecutable, don't be dumb.
Behave better, you're fucking up your life. Learn to walk away.
Get more options, more abundance, other girls.
hannulv 3y ago
The best way to stop thinking about a girl is to fuck other girls. The second best way is to do other fulfilling activities with your time.
These however aren't your problem. You have lots of feelings, but no plan. You need to become detail oriented about planning what you want to get out life. You are letting life happen to you. Like a jellyfish, your born, you float around a little while, and soon you'll be dead. You can self-actualize, and take control of your own life, and you should.
Drinking is not your problem, you are your problem. You need to realize that its your life, and you need to take ownership of it. AA is a ridiculous religion for people with no discipline and self-control. You are handing your life over to a cult full of people with no discipline and self-control. If that is you, by all means join the cult and stem the losses, otherwise get a grip on yourself, figure out what you want in life and go after it.
Blingo123 3y ago
I know they most likely are losers but it’s nice to go socialize with other people at least because all my friends do is drink. I just stay at home after college working on my project, so I just dwell on this whole situation and annoy myself. I just got back from my second meeting, I’m gonna go everyday I think because my friends literally are all losers.
DextroShade 3y ago
She was never yours bro, it was just your turn. Here's how you get over her: fuck another bitch.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
You became emotional like a woman. Go look at what happened to Jack Murphy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-rqCqfXwQOA
She dumped you for drunken behaviour and acting like a woman and is fucking another guy. Control your emotions, know your alcohol limits, and stopped being attached to a hoe. While you're at it, go look up the penalty for felony assault.
MrSupreme 3y ago
The way you wrote that,makes it sound like you're talking about quitting hard drugs. You can date other chicks or you can take some time off for yourself Wich I recommend in this case
Cheers
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Flaky_Session 3y ago
TBH your behavior sounds very pathetic.
You need to check your ego and practice a little stoicism.
Blingo123 3y ago
Thanks, I will read up about stoicism. Any good resources?
Flaky_Session 3y ago
I'm glad you're willing to change, that's usually the biggest hurdle for most to cross.
I started with listening to "How To Think Like A Roman Emperor" on Audible.
Other resources can be found throughout the internet.
Would also recommend reading:
All by Robert Greene
Blingo123 3y ago
Wow thanks, I’ve already read the 48 laws of power but I’ve not even heard of the rest. Thanks so much.