I have a strange aversion to eating a woman out, even in the setting of a monogamous LTR. Some of you may disagree, but I see it as submissive and cringeworthy. A part of me thinks that I will eventually have to do it if I ever want to truly please a woman. Is this true? Also, what are you guys' thoughts on demanding she gives you head but never eating her out? I am pretty sure an alpha could pull this off with no problems.
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MrSupreme 3y ago
Carpet munching gets mixed reactions, some see it as submissive,others like a way to just do something different.
I find myself actually liking it cause it gets a great reaction from them while doing it, so I would advice to get good at it and do it every once in a while
thatssexistbtw 3y ago
depends if you are doing it to please her or reward her
Boris1998 3y ago
I just don't want to do it regardless.
Scorpion69_ 3y ago
If u dont want to do it then dont. A girl can be pleased by sucking ur motherfuckin cock.
Although eating her out (if the frame is correct obviously) is a good way to dominate her, because you are -eating- her out, and she cant escape you
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
It makes you more versatile in bed, obviously. Is it required in order to be great in bed? No.
The world aint fair. If she doesnt like it she can move on.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
no
Yep.
DextroShade 3y ago
Tell them you only go down on virgins, as you won't put your mouth in the same place as another guys dick. That will shut them up pretty quick.
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hannulv 3y ago
I love eating girls out... I could munch for hours and not get bored, but I rarely ever do it. It turns me on like crazy, but I almost never do it. It is really hard for a girl to see you as dominant when you're going down, especially when it is part of the standard scene.
In order to eat a girl out dominantly you've got to absolutely be in charge of it. You've got to make her feel completely helpless, manipulate her into extremely vulnerable positions, and physically control her. If you aren't into it, I doubt it could work out. You'd need to be aggressive, not gentle like a girl would be. Use lots of nibbling, biting, spanking, and control. Once she gets really worked up, play with her asshole, be rough.
Here are some scenarios that work.
Boris1998 3y ago
That sounds fire as fuck, but as you said, I probably couldn't pull it off because I have zero interest in eating girls out. Honestly speaking, doing things to please her is a turn-off for me. I don't exactly know why. I prefer just using and abusing her until I bust.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
I like to think of it as checking their fertility, evolutionarily speaking. When we french kiss a woman we are checking her hormone levels and she is checking ours. I can definitely tell you that pussy tastes and smells different at different ages and different stages of the ovulatory cycle.
jormigaso 3y ago
can you elaborate? and be specific about the tastes? I haven't eaten a girl out so I would like to gain experience by learning from your experience (I've read that it tastes like metal)
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Their estrogen and progesterone are in their salivary and vaginal fluids. So a young woman that is ovulating has a sweet taste and an older menopausal woman tastes sour. They all taste bad when menstruating. If you're cursed with a strong sense of smell like me they smell like honey when ovulating and blood when menstruating.
jormigaso 3y ago
gotcha, when you do oral sex is it safe to "eat/drink" those fluids? or how the fuck is done? also, after doing it, should one brush the teeth? same thing with oral sex from them to you (e.g. let's say on a car), do women clean your glans like with their tongue/mouth? since when I masturbate I notice I need to wash that shit, etc? I'm concerned with what happens after?
whytehorse2021 3y ago
I wouldn't worry about cleaning or exchanging bodily fluids. We've been doing it for millions of years.
jormigaso 3y ago
wouldn't be weird to walk in the streets with the boxer (underwear) wet cause you received oral sex? I just don't understand what fucking happens after the act per se (and If I ask her, or doubtsecond guess in the moment, she will know I'm fucking inexperienced)
ChadifiedAsian 3y ago
I love eating girls out, especially 69ing. I've never had a girl think I was submissive or less dominant because I went down on her. Sounds like you don't like eating box anyway, so don't sweat it, man. Get yours, that's what's most important, anyway.
jormigaso 3y ago
what do you like about it? I'm worried about the taste and getting STDs