Basically I broke all of my frame with this chick. Shit wasn't really going anywhere full-on what you guys would call "Oneitis". Got flaked on, rejected, any still kept trying... major BP honestly it's so bad lol. What can I do to not do this again in the future. Literally this shit wasn't going anywhere and this chick would only talk to me when she needed something (I'm good at studies) and I called her out on it the other day. It's just really annoying to be completely honest.
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chickengod 4y ago
First, never use a girl's help for studies (doesn't apply if you're genuinely not interested in her). That breaks frame and puts her in a position of power.
If you get flaked on or rejected, that's it. Even without abundance, you need to move on and find some other girls
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Learn from your mistakes. Dont be needy. Even if you feel that way you know it wont get you what you want, so stop.
Eventually, with more success, you will feel abundance and needy behaviour just wont materialise in this way.
Durek_The_Bald 4y ago
This is about needyness, and i think the only answer is experience. People can give you tons of advice on how to be less needy, but until you experience a decent amount of women for yourself, you're going to have a hard time genuinely internalising how little it really matters to have women - or a woman - in your life.
I'd say have hobbies, interests and important/enjoyable things to do. Have a circle of male friends that you spend time with. Date around, maybe an LTR here and there, but always keep your back free, so that you have an easy way out for when it's no longer enjoyable.
With time and age you'll come to realize that even being in a good relationship with a woman is pretty much equal in life quality to being single. And if it's not a good relationship, being single is always better. Bottom line is that you don't really need women for any sort of fulfilment (unless you really want kids), but you have to experience a good amount of them for yourself - both short term and long term - to really get that through your head.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
more options.
Pedal_Moonpower 4y ago
I have never taken MDMA as it can release psychotic person sitting in you.
Find a way to prevent shit.
I.e. at the beginning of my travel after I texted new prospects I put them right away to messanger archive not to see them in my messages. Helped.