• Stop giving a fuck about every little thing. So many guys here wonder if they lost frame because of minor details.. it's kind of pathetic. Say whatever the fuck you want unless it makes you sound like a total whine boy, the true Alphas are guys who can just say shit that a Beta guy would go like "oh my god did he just say what I think he said";

• Talk to her like a whore when you fuck her, I mean absolutely disrespect her in bed. I made one of my catty exes call herself a stupid whore while I was fucking her, and she had a massive ego otherwise. Women fucking love a Dominant man; it is the key to a forever lasting sex life.. the truth is many guys are vanilla as fuck and this pisses women off;

• Set your boundaries with an iron fist, let her know that you will not let shit slide, if needed make an example out of some bullshit she pulls and be ruthless about the examples you set. Bring a nuclear bazooka to every shit-test and chop off hands for minor offenses.. metaphorically speaking.. and if you can then ALWAYS let actions do the speaking for you;

• When she does something good, reward/praise her. I know guys will say to rule with an iron fist all the time because the aforementioned is a BeTa TrAiT but hyper-dictators lead to assassins and heads rolling, you have to give credit where it is due and solidify good behaviours. This last part is really important. It is the hot part of hot & cold. If you don't do it then she will find a shoulder to cry on and you know what that means. Women love aftercare, too.

I'm currently with a wonderful, sweet woman who is an amazing cook & does all the chores with no problem. She is pretty much the trad dream. Probably gonna marry her because compared to modern women she is basically a saint and I can swear that my glasses aren't rose tinted. At the beginning of the relationship tho when we weren't as serious, I saw her flirting with some dude (as a female would) so I approached a random HB9, started chatting her up, teasing her, treating her like a bratty sister, making her giggle; the whole 9 yards. She got pissed and was mad jealous, saw that my branch was made from pure Wakandian Vibranium, never pulled shit like that again because she knows I am not one to be fucked with.

If I hear something I don't like, I call her out, make her apologize to me and nip it in the bud. My boundaries are known, and I respect hers too. If I am wrong about something, I will apologize whole heartedly, if i am not I will never do it to please her. I compliment her on things, I tell her when she does the stuff I like, I'm extra sweet with her when she is in pain/on period/etc, I treat her like a queen when she deserves it, I care for her and I am protective at times. Not a covert contract; I just reward good behaviours. I also told her that if she became a feminist, got really obese or generally drastically changed that I would leave her. Yes, I did say that. I do not give a fuck, I just find it right to warn her and I'm not afraid. I make sexist jokes about females and racist jokes galore. Guess what? She returns back and doesn't act offended (even though she was a bit in the beginning) because when you truly have a DGAF attitude, it is just hard to resist it. I spit on her face, then I kiss it and call her my cutie.

She treats me like a King, does whatever she is told, fucks me like a pornstar, respects me to the n-th degree and recently wrote me a really long, cute letter how I make her happy. INB4 someone says that I am making her to be a unicorn, she is a bit oversensitive and sometimes takes some anxiety meds so yeah nobody is perfect and, again, compared to the modern woman she is Virgin Mary. I'm very happy with everything, in our 2nd year of dating.