Sleep together 5 times (im mostly busy to go out) in 1 month and half. We came to the topic of she being my main plate (didnt used those words) and I tested her asking if she was ready to do every thing I ordered her to, she said yes, so I told how about going out with a friend of mine and see were that lead us. She gave an straigh NO to ffm threesomes (reason: she doesnt like girls) i was going to explain that being in a threesome with other woman doesnt push her to do things with her and etc. But instead I just told her she wont be my main plate and I had other things to do. Now shes writting me a lot of I miss yous and she yesterday kinda shit tested me saying "im ways horny, you will have to find something or someone to entertain me while I wait" I defleted what she said changing the topic. NOW I have will see her tonight and shes really into being hit, and choked (like with force until shes red and crying), the reason of this should be related with she being raped as a child in a church (i know its a mayor redflag). Should I punish her hard for not going with ffm threesome and she teasing with her gettings toys or dick cause im busy? Or that will look like a reward?