I've been approaching a few women since I started my red pill journey.
I've not approached nearly as many women as people here would recommend but I when I get rejected, it's extremely humiliating for me and I'm starting to get fed up of it.
Just yesterday, I was at a New Year's party and I managed to isolate this girl, but my friend (who hosted the party) ended up interfering and seperating us. I'm actually good friends with the guy but he claims he did out of concern for the woman because he felt she was too drunk. I was drunk too but everything we did was consensual. Whithin a few minutes after getting cockblocked, another guy ended up making out with her and this really pissed me off.
I'm not having any success with women but I don't want to give up and become blackpilled. Does anyone have any advice for me?
pfeilmacher 4y ago
You can't control others' behavior. Don't even try to. Just keep on being you, approaching women.
You'll have losses occasionally, but over the long run you'll be way ahead of the others.
Pedal_Moonpower 4y ago
Really hard to judge your mate, if one respect himslf, one doesn't take risk with drunk chicks. On otherhand you could get number. It will be important what he really ment by interference. Judge your mates by what they do not what they say. Pretty much like with girls.
Ask him to ie wing you. Dont ask why he did it for now.
Pulling aint easy if start from scratch. But if everyone would be that goood there would be no fun. If you don't think u r attractive game can give you advantage over other guys. If you go black you'll choose your path of depression. Suppression of urges wont work forever.
DastardlyCade 4y ago
Don’t associate with lame people. Anyone that is holding you back needs to be cut out from your life. Do you think this guy who you are “good friends” with is going to be there for you when you get jumped by a group of people. No he’s gonna either inspire the enemy or run away. You need to curate a masculine circle. Being surrounded by a masculine energy is vital to becoming a man of purpose. cockblocking and playing captain save a hoe is also a prime example of why betas are inherently weak men that will do anything just to feel like they have some kind of power or control
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Can't get rejected if you never try. You're in a frame that is dependent on women for your self-confidence. Who cares if some bitch rejects you? Her loss. You're the prize.
MrSupreme 4y ago
Sounds to me like you're doing alrighty, there will be some losses, some cockblocking ,sometimes her girlfriend will get in the way, just keep gaming
Hanscheezburger 4y ago
Humiliated? I think you're being too hard on yourself.
Even the best PUA fails sometimes and it's not the end of the world. You're putting too much pressure on a desired outcome while the goal here is to enjoy yourself.