So I met this girl last week, we hung out a few nights ago, ended up making out in my bed. She is high interest: chases me, initiates texts, etc. I'm a college student and just got home for three weeks and want to make sure she's still an option when we get back.
I know texting should be for logistics, and that's what I do when I'm on campus. Today we had some short convo, pretty dry, and ultimately she's online but hadn't replied to my recent message. Would it be a good idea to only let her initiate during this break? How do I maintain attraction
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chickengod 4y ago
Aight so this girl hit me up this morning with a "are you doing anything fun for xmas?"
Do I just ghost that, give a short response, what
I hate texting man. In person is so much better because I can escalate
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chickengod 4y ago
Well, tried my best but she is now distant and very hesitant to go on a second date. Quite the surprise given the high level of interest she showed just a few weeks ago. Oh well
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
OP, any of the above, but whatever you do, next time you’re with her, you need to escalate MORE. Learn about indicators of interest, female body language and how YOUR body language and posture/ vocal tonality should be.
Hanscheezburger 4y ago
maintain attraction by focusing on yourself and your SMV. spend that time to workout, improve your style and appearance. You can't make a girl more attracted to you by talking or texting, so don't waste time on that. Don't be too distant either, though. Good luck