Went up to this girl who was sitting in a car and Tried getting her number. She says she has a bf and I assume it’s a shittest so I ask for her ig which she also refuses. I think she was on the phone with her boyfriend the whole time whom she was probably waiting for because not too long later this Audi suv pulls up on us and tried to block me in.
I get out of the parking lot and get on the street but he follows me and pulls up beside me at the next red light. He starts talking about giving me a headshot for talking to his girlfriend and spits at my friend who was sitting in the passenger seat.
There was 3 of us in my car and i saw him and another person in his car so We contemplated pulling over and throwin down but you never know what they could be carrying so I just ignored him and continue driving. I think he turned right at the following light because we never saw that car again.
For future reference how do you navigate this kind of situation without getting jumped or shot at by a crazy bf while cold approaching woman.

master-of-losers 4y ago
Carry a gun and a bullet proof vest whenever you go cold approaching.
320skew 4y ago
Name checks out.
Hanscheezburger 4y ago
You handled it well. Ignore the crazies, game other chicks. Just wondering if she showed any IOI and if she did, what was it
NotGoodWithUsernames 4y ago
Stop going after other people's girls you little disgusting weasel. Wish he would have smashed your ignorant head in.
DastardlyCade 4y ago
Is that how you feel when other guys hit on your girl
NotGoodWithUsernames 4y ago
I let her handle that side of the business pal, I just stand there and laugh at the desperation and thirstyness of guys like you.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Not everything is a fucking shit test.
Why do you guys assume that anything that isn't "I want to jump on you this second" is a shit test?
Bail when she says "I have a boyfriend".
Scorpion69_ 4y ago
Lol u rlly bailin if she says i have a bf?
U literally shouldnt if u wanna fuck her. Its usually used as a shit test (even if she really has a bf), and you also should never take the garbage she says seriously.
Assuming that everything is a shit test (with social intelligence and calibration, ofc) is a form of assuming attraction.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Welcome to TRP, i see you've read some of the basics.
Swap "usually" for "often" and it's quite right.
Anyone with half a brain knows this. Still, the smart thing to do is to drop the conversation at that point if you dont want to end up with a crazy BF on your ass like OP.
DastardlyCade 4y ago
Not entirely true. You have to read her body language when she says that which I didn’t do very well of
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4y ago
This sounded like a horrible approach to begin with. She was sitting in HER CAR. She was on the phone. She claimed she had a bf while she was on the phone with someone.
Were girls who were not in this absolutely terrible set-up not available to approach? Seriously, this was doomed to fail from the start
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
Especially since he had two other guys with him. For all she knew, they wanted to kidnap her and gang r4pe her. Can’t say I blame her reaction.
OP, when a woman tells you she has a BF, you can either bail or take the risk. You took the risk off the back of a terrible approach and bad shit almost happened, and to boot, she was on the phone when you were trying to “game” her. She saw more red flags than a Chinese communist parade. Honestly, you’re lucky she wasn’t carrying.
DastardlyCade 4y ago
It was a restaurant parking lot and I only approached by myself. But yeah I should’ve read her body language better and failed the first time she said she had a boyfriend
DastardlyCade 4y ago
To be fair it was a dare so I wasn’t thirsty or anything. But yeah it was a doomed approached. She basically parked beside us while we were just talking outside the car and I approached her. I should’ve read her body language better and read body languages better in general
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4y ago
Is a dare worth your life?
DastardlyCade 4y ago
Definitely not but I already agreed with you that it was a doomed approach. I was wondering what to do about crazy boyfriends in the future especially when there is IOIs and she doesn’t mention a boyfriend. Or if she does say she has a boyfriend and you walk away and they come and decide to escalate with you
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
Don’t put yourself in situations where there’s a possibility of a [crazy] boyfriend. That’s the best advice I can give. If you approach and she says she has a BF, like I said, you’ve got a choice and when I’m in that situation, I choose to avoid it. I couldn’t care less if she’s shit testing or not, because if she was that into me and single, she wouldn’t want to take a chance on ruining a chance with me.
Guys in here take the whole “shit testing” thing to a stupid level at times.
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