I will be quick this time. Second date, she bought lingerie of my picking, we met on a plaza, 15 minutes later we are all hands on each other even with people around I managed to touch her/kiss her all over. From there it was a piece of cake to taker her to the hotel and I fucked her 2 twice, she suck me 3 times, she was really into it, I hit her hard a few times with my belt and choker her, she scratched the shit out of me in the back and almost made it bleed. The experience was very intense, we laughed, moaned and shit. She was very into eye contact with me. After all the sex, shit became a little awkard, she told me didnt want me to hurt her, and that she knows theres other girls (true). Thing its she was being very lovely and probably wanted some confort or commitment, i was clear... i said no. Next morning we departed to each of our works and she told me she was having trouble departing from me, I reassured her it wasnt going to be the last time she was going to see me. Now shes texting me and wanting to talk, but its not making clear advances about chasing me. Should I upload pictures with other woman? Like yesterday a fwb came home and we took some pica together of our feets with socks on being lovely. Would it be pushing it too hard?
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Hanscheezburger 4y ago
What are you trying to do?
You want no commitment but want her to chase you too?
You wrote that you told her you didnt want to commit, why are you thinking about her not making clear advances? Most girls wouldn't in that situation. Dread games often strengthen that
Onestepeveryday 4y ago
I will explain what I wanna do. She likes me, thats very obvious and I like her.
But I dont wanna be "the boyfriend" yet and she seems hesitant to be the one on the loosing side of a fwb relation. Maybe she doesnt want to feel like a slut or its trying to power game me. Im wrong?
redhawkes 2 4y ago
What FWB? You have only smashed once, don't even know her. Keep plating and read HSP Bitch Management.
Don't fall for negotiations or another power plays. Dread is subtle, let your actions speak. Also, don't get surprised if you find out she's fucked in the head or BPD.
Setup logistics, smash. Rinse, repeat.
Onestepeveryday 4y ago
Read about BPD, could be a possibility. Will read HSP bitch management as advised. Thanks for feedback.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
This quote by Rollo comes to mind:
This is her competition anxiety in high gear. You shouldnt give her the great satisfaction of assured commitment; even something small as a date two (a "we'll talk" could suffice).
At the same time, this line of thinking may blow things out of the water. Doing this may break her for you. Instead you need to be ambiguous in your communication, and most importantly hold frame through all of the texting and "wanting to talk".
Onestepeveryday 4y ago
I understood about she trying to tie me up as a competition anxiety in high gear (it match her words about knowing im dating other girls). And I agree about doing the pic thing somekind of overkill, thats why I asked and im happy you guys told me not to do it. I didnt understan the last part about the "wanting to talk" thing. I dont really wanna talk with her, shes the one pushing small talk by text. I just wanna repeat that wild sex haha
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Dont fall for her games. If you tell her what she says she wants to hear she'll dry up quick
whytehorse2021 4y ago
You probably forgot to cuddle... You have to throw them a bone every once in a while. I'm just surprised she pounced so fast. Go ahead and talk and see if she would rather share you than lose you, assuming she wants to talk about relationshits.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
invite her over
no - she knows the score.
don't do that.... she knows you see other girls, no need to push harder than that.
open relationships aren't for everyone.... maybe she's ok with it, maybe not