What age would you guys say is a good age to get into a ltr?
I know trp recommends you spinning plates and girls will screw around whether in a ltr or not. I’ve always thought you should wait till your at least 28 to get into one because you should be building an empire right. I’m 25 and just recently gone back to college to be a programmer and hopefully start my own business in that field because I’m striving for excellence in that particular field. But it feels like every guy my age is having kids, living with their girlfriends etc. At the moment I feel like I just can’t compete with other guys around my age, as they have nice cars and more money while I’m at college studying for a better future.
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Blingo123 2y ago
Also the last girl I was seeing left me for a guy with a car.
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Blingo123 2y ago
Ok. What i mean by “nice cars” is a decent car ie £15,000+ whereas I have no car to take a girl anywhere, just my flat. And I certainly don’t have that kind of money ethier. But it’s hard knowing that I’m losing out on pussy when I’m not working and have no money to take girls out.
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Blingo123 2y ago
Yeah I think that’s about right, I think cars might be cheaper in the USA aswell.
pofkaf 2y ago
There is no correct age to enter a serious long term relationship. It's not about how old you are, it's about what you want to do with your life.
Do you want kids? Do you want the perks that come with being committed to another person (time wise consistency, financial resources, etc)? Are you in a financial position that you can support yourself and also share a little with your partner? Are you ready to be sexually exclusive with just one person? Is your frame strong enough to handle the tests that will inevitably come your way? Are you emotionally strong enough to withstand your partner potentially cheating on you?
I could go on and on. But the point is...if a person truly thinks that they are ready, then the age does not matter.
But with that in mind, entering a relationship before 30 at least is a bad decision imo.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
25 is probably ideal. 28 is probably more practical.
berttbarnes94 2y ago
Idk bro. I feel ready right now and I’m 25.
I want kids by the time I’m 30. But I also want to be in a relationship for a few years before kids so I feel like the clock is ticking.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
no less than 65.
Fortunately girls don't work like this.
I've fucked girls while having no car, living at my parents, and over the age of 40.
Be hot. Be fun. Chat up girls.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
You definitely want to be done with college and well along your way into a career before you get a wife and mother of your children. I was in my 30s when I started getting baby rabies. Anyway, you're going to find 2 types of women: the ones who wait at the finish line for the winners... and the ones that will run the marathon with you. I'd say any woman over age 28 is likely to be a finish line type.