Where do you draw the line between linking up again with an old fling again or not...?
I know that getting back with an LTR or a girl who disrepected you is a no go, but picking it up where you left with a plate that you've slept with only a few times is usually no problem. I've had girls hit me up after 6 months+ and hooking up then is no problem because there are literally no emotions left.
However, I have a situation atm; FWB I was seeing for 6 months called me yesterday (I was asleep so I didn't answer), after 2 months of no contact (last time she wanted commitment, I said no --> she did some very typical girly petty things, so I removed her from my life completely).
I was somewhat hurt but it didn't take me too long to get over her and I've been seeing other girls since then.
I'm 20 & she's 18 and she knows very well that there will be no LTR (especially considering the way she acted when things ended last time).
I'm confident that I could stay emotionally detached and only "use" her for sex.. ooor I could be completely wrong and end up hurt again.
In a situation like this, is it worth linking up with her again?
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
right
maybe, but it's more likely she's hitting you up for attention rather than sex
or "closure", which is girlspeak for "prove he wants me more than I want him and that he's a loser and I'm better off without him".
nibbetechn0 2y ago
Well she knows she won’t get neither closure nor attention from me. Might as well give it a shot then