Hey fellas.
I am 25 and just moved to a new country from a shitty one, and now have a 6-figure income. Looking for tips to build a social circle and/or plate rotation asap. I'm lacking social proof at the moment as I don't have high value friends and work in a woke beta environment. Admittedly I am not at a level on any of my hobbies to attract people but will try to improve over time, though that is long term process. I'm generally good at small talk and look good so I'd say I'm doing few things right, but the pace of getting to where I wanna be is very slow.
Shoot me any advice, especially if you've been through this new country process.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Depends on the country. In Indonesia all of us expats had a social circle based on our common job of teaching. Then there were the girls who wanted to hang out after class. Then there was the bar where all the hoes go to get foreigners.
In Thailand there were beer gardens and red light districts plus a few married retirees who I'd hang out with at their house and drink beer. If you can speak the language you can make friends with the locals, usually by frequenting their shop.
In the US I've found that most married guys have no life outside of their marriage and Church. So the social scene is pretty much single guys immersed in their hobbies like rockets, D&D, fishing, football, etc.
Toxicking101 2y ago
16 year old here, moved around the world throughout my childhood and teen years. Talk to people as much as possible, as has already been said, and try and adjust to the culture their if that makes sense, you don’t want to be so different that any conversation is impossible.
With regards to women it’s probably best To hit up the more exclusive clubs and bars, that’s where you’ll find the ones who like rich foreign guys haha. By the way, the fact that you’re foreign will IMMEDIATELY make you more interesting and valuable to these women. Try find some good social activities aswell, maybe a sport or something more creative if that’s your thing.
Where’ve you moved from/to?
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
go out there and do things you like
go out there and meet women.