The reason I'm writing this post is because I've got a girl who had originally put me in the friend zone panicking a little now. And it's so fucking tiresome to ask a question and just get these canned answers as if they're spit out of a motivational YouTube video.
"You ignore her for YOU bro, not for her!" "Actually have options, don't just fake it til you make it!"
The bottom line is 80% of the men at any given men HAVE TO fake it to get laid. Yet half of you are here to tell other guys how busy you actually are, that you're ACTUALLY busy lifting and "on your grind" 24/7 and have no time to pay these hoes any mind...meanwhile you're also on a seduction forum. What are you doing here anyway then if not looking for tips to tighten your game?
If a guy with zero fucking options because he lost the genetic lottery and is ugly, or is stuck living at home for some reason wants to use dread game for the one chick on his radar, just let him be and help him out. Don't give him a Rocky speech from you ivory tower.
Dread game, when applied right, works EVEN IF you have no other options. Do you know how many times I fucked my ex by having her THINK I was with other girls when I was sitting in my undearwear playing video games? It got to a point she drove past my house, noticed a new car I bought a week earlier, and thought it was another girl's car. She imagined an entire scenario that didn't happen with the application of tight game (which is basically just letting a woman's imagination run wild) and it was some of the best make up sex ever. Sometimes I'd even stage fights (and suspect she did too) for that reason. Because SEDUCTION IS FUN. The game is fun. Lifting weights and working 50 hours a week are not fun. We do them to reap the rewards and become more better with women.
But then when we want to come here and discuss seduction we have a bunch of Chadrones trying to AMOG. Give it a rest. Rollo Tomassi is the greatest mind in the history of the manosphere and his entire schtick is navigating female psychology. It works and he can predict your interactions with women to a tee, but if you had your way he'd close down the blog and podcast and just go liftmaxx bro.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Well that's just, like, your opinion, man.
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CrispyCruiser 2y ago
Cause it's annoying. What is the point of people like yourself being on this forum if your default response to every topic is links to some other shit or "sidebar"? Are you trying to sell me an ebook or something? Why even have the forum?
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CrispyCruiser 2y ago
Even if it's an 18 year dude thinks he found a unicorn or his "one", I would give him my best tips and tricks to get that girl in bed, even if it means faking it until he makes it, while at the same time warning him not to forget to talk to other girls. But all I see in TRP communities is "just liftmaxx and forget her bro. Thinking about her under any circumstances is beta. Abundance." and a bunch of hustle porn cliches
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delesseyM 2y ago
Nah lifting weights it's fun
CrispyCruiser 2y ago
What percentage of guys do you think believe this? If there were no women left on earth, would you still lift heavy things 5x a week and subject yourself to what can sometimes be a lot of pain? Genuine question to see if it's something you would do anyway or a necessary evil to attract women
delesseyM 2y ago
During my childhood i was very competitive at almost any sport. I got into lifting because i wanted to be better at basketball. I got hooked by lifting weights and training overall because it's a solo sport. It only depends on me. I really want to compete at powerlifting sometime, even tho I know that I'm not genetically gifted or a strong freak but i put the best of me on every single rep. So if there's is no woman left on earth, I would probably lift weights 7x a week.
Toxicking101 2y ago
But that’s not anything that will happen, it’s an innate biological drive to improve yourself in order to fuck women and reproduce, it’s literally hardwired
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Faking it is less satisfying than actually producing the desired results you want through genuine improvement and having high value.
80% of men? Obviously, the TRP community has been saying since it's inception that women chase the top 20% of men. Dating app statistics also reflect this.
The point of the advice we are giving, the advice you disfavor over psychological shortcuts and mind fuckery, is that becoming valuable is attractive. We all know you can lie and swindle your way into a girl's pants but how is that satisfying?
The reason we give our advice and not yours is because we don't want to have the constant nagging sensation of imposter syndrome while we get laid. If you're fine faking your way into the bedroom, good for you, but that's not what most of us want.
Having to fake it is akin to desperation, if not a prime example of it. I'll take the advice of most of the people in this sub over yours any day for that very reason
CrispyCruiser 2y ago
Guys should be improving themselves. Obviously. This is already implied. Where it becomes annoying is when a guy comes to a forum like this and says "I met this girl and this is the problem I'm running into", and all he gets is an automatic "you have oneitis, next her and be better". All these hustle porn cliches. I'm not buying it. By virtue of simply registering for an account on this site, you're looking to tighten your game with women and pick up on things you can learn from other guys. Otherwise your philosophy would be, lift more and earn more. You wouldn't need to be on a seduction forum. So it all comes off as very disingenuous
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
I agree depending on the reason for users saying next her. Sometimes it's salvagable, other times it's not.
The reason a lot of users say "next" is because any other advice would leave the guy fighting an uphill battle after he's already catostrophically lost frame or if she's got some other major red flags
This isn't a seduction forum. It's a forum for understanding female nature and how to be a better man with value, which happens to naturally have elements of seduction. That's the major distinction. A seduction forum vs a forum that happens to have seduction in it.
If you think TRP exists solely to tighten game it's really missing the point
The primary purpose of this forum isn't to convince a guy to slug through a hopeless battle with a girl after things are already going way south with the chick.
A lot of posts have heavily unsalvageable frame losses, hence "next"
NotGoodWithUsernames 2y ago
This guy is spitting way too many facts lmao.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
This is solid advice.
Sure, but much better advice is to go out and meet new women.