I approached a girl at my school about 3 weeks ago and she was pretty shy/nervous when I talked to her. After a 45 minute conversation, she opened up and I got her number. Unfortunately, we couldn't meet for coffee because we are both busy (she even offered for me to visit her at work). I then text her when she was free and I got no response. 2 weeks later, she texts me saying she was busy and got a new job and school has been a pain (I would know because I was given a ton of work to do over thanksgiving break) and she asked how I was doing. Should I call her tmr and schedule a date or is this a red flag?
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
She's a stranger, strangers don't prioritise each other. She came back. It's a good sign, go have fun with her.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
She bothered to come back, that's something. You'll have to ask her out and if she gives you bullshit answers back, next and no contact unless she reaches out again with an actual desire to meet
Growing 2y ago
Translation:
"I am free. I'm waiting for you to ask me out, or better yet take the lead. Let me come into your world. If you don't take your shot now, I'll give it to chad"
Don't go in so strongly.
Something like:
"I'll bike tomorrow to this chill place in the evening. I feel as naked as nature (see what I did there? She'll start picturing you naked) especially when it's windy. You should definitely come see it"
When people say you should text for statistics, this is what they mean.
Don't be a boring ass: "Tomorrow. My place"
That's an extremely dominant text that should only be sent to a girl who has adopted your frame and considers you her man.
Go ahead.
Make hay when the sun still shines.
In case it doesn't work out, don't fret.
Remember: She doesn't matter, get more options.
Rinse and repeat.
Good luck bro!