Brought a girl home. We were getting hot and heavy. She claimed that she has vaginismus.
I could barely stick a finger in there - it was tighter than Superman's spandex. I still got mine though because she can suck a mean dick.
I'm wondering how to mitigate this issue for the future. She is already seeing a therapist for it. Anything that I can do next time we meet to loosen it up?
Semenbaptism 3y ago
Vaginismus is an absolute bitch to fix. She has to go to therapy(which she is doing) and a bunch of weird exercises with a bunch of different tools. Some of them look like dildos of different sizes.
Just beware, Vaginismus comes with some sort of emotional trauma most of the time.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Sounds like my wife the first time I fucked her. I just started with a pinky finger and worked my way up.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Doubt you'll fix it quickly - she's clearly trying.
Enjoy the head :)
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jormigaso 3y ago
shit, that's exactly the fucking girl I need, I have a 5" erect dick. Any patterns you can extract from her? so I can target girls like that one instead of going with size queens
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Lmfao. Girls with this condition cant deal with yours either, sorry
jormigaso 3y ago
why? size queens can't due to being 'too small', normal girls make fun of me for being 'small' too, what is wrong with aiming for hoes with that condition? it's not like I'm gonna hit their cervix
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Jesus i wish you were joking. If you can barely fit a finger, how can you fit a dick, even a 5" one? Vaginismus is a condition stemming from any number of things and it can be really painful. There is probably no way of "targeting" girls with that condition, and the thought of it is just insane tbh.
The only way for you to evolve is to accept yourself. Own it. Be upfront about it even, if you feel like you dont wanna waste time on a chick that might not be happy with a smaller dick. Women are mostly aroused by emotion anyway. While a bigger dick is very helpful it's not necessary for good sex.
Lastly there are legit options to enhance both length and girth of the penis if you are willing to do the work. Cant remember what it's called but there are devices you can wear daily that will have lasting effects from regular use.
jormigaso 3y ago
well, I seriously wish this was a fucking joke and I shouldn't have to deal with this motherfucker issue that destroyed my life completely. To answer you, please stop the blue pill bullshit, I know I'm fucked and even If I embrace it, blah blah blah, they will always prefer a Chad with a bigger unit. I just would like to find someday what is the red pill cure/heal to this shit, because the red pill is the only thing that always told me the truth even when I didn't like to read/know it. But everything points that I'm genetically pre-destined to be the cuckold beta bucks idiot that won't be able to become Chad ever in his fucking existence.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
You are conflating red pill and black pill.
The black pill is for people who have given up and blame their disadvantages and/or other people for their lack of success with women.
The red pill is for those who want to understand female nature, use it to their advantage, maximize their potential for success and so on.
When Dan Rose, the author of Sex God Method, can have that level of success in the bedroom while having a 5.5" cock; im sure you can muster at least a semblance of that while missing that half inch.
I suggest you decide which pill you want to swallow. One leads to hard work and success, the other to lazy self pity and anger.
jormigaso 3y ago
understood, thanks for your comments, a bunch of work to do on my end