Some guy on reddit who claimed to have had a threesome said it was "the best night of his life" but he ignored my follow-up question so I wanted to ask here. (the title is my follow-up question)
There is a 10% chance my wife might allow me to have a threesome in April but I've been warned (on reddit) MULTIPLE TIMES that a threesome ALWAYS kills a relationship and I sure-as-fuck don't want to kill my relationship with my wife which is why I plan to do the threesome without her. (she lives in the Philippines and I have 2 female online friends from her country that said "maybe" to having a threesome with me and my wife)
One additional girl says she wants to watch me have live sex with my wife in front of her (which might turn into a threesome?) All three girls have video called me, sent me nudes, and gave me their real facebook.
The 2 girls who agreed to have a threesome with my wife do not know that I plan to hopefully/eventually persuade them to give me a threesome with each other. I will probably invite them BOTH to a hotel (expecting to meet my wife) then tell them that my wife had LMR to the threesome and that this was a "last minute" change in plans --- will the girls be dumb enough to believe this?
I fully expect that if they ACTUALLY show up to my hotel expecting a threesome with my wife, then they will probably arrive horny and be expecting a threesome and hopefully will use their hamster to rationalize themselves into compliance? (if BOTH girls don't agree to the threesome then I'll just send the uglier girl home and have solo sex with the prettier one)
Lastly -- I've been told "all girls are secretly bisexual" and it's fine/normal/expect to make the girls engage in lesbian stuff but if I feel shameful/guilty about making the two girls do that -- does that mean I "pussied out" and missed out on one of the best aspects of having a threesome?
I would love to watch two girls eat each other out and/or kiss or suck each other's boobs IF AND ONLY IF the girls actually were enjoying it and wanted to do it but I'd feel very uncomfortable knowing that they secretly hated it and were only doing it to make me happy.
Thank you in advance for answering any/all of my threesome questions today! (Note: if you are answering my questions but have not had a threesome -- please make that somewhat clear to me in your response so that I can put more weight/focus on the men from this community that have actually had a threesome).
P.S. Lastly -- do any of you remember the famous reddit story where a guy went to his company's Christmas party and had a threesome with 2 of his co-workers and got them BOTH pregnant that night?
redmatrix7 5 months ago
What is with you??? All you do is post about the same exact shit all the time.
IBelieveInTheFallen 5 months ago
Sundae is a pillar to the community and I will not stand for any disrespect to him.
master-of-losers 5 months ago
I love your posts. They're entertainingly ridiculous.
Dr_Cockasaurus 5 months ago
I want an orgy with multiple women, maybe 5.
But it’s not really worth it unless they’re all bi. Don’t want bitches crying and shit.
sundae411 5 months ago
I think having a threesome mattered more to me 5-10 years ago than it matters to me today.
It's more of an ego thing to know that I've had a threesome so that I can firmly believe that I've have had a better sex life than 95% of guys. As a guy you are probably fully aware that guys care mostly about only these two things on a day-to-day basis:
I feel like not having experienced a threesome undeniably puts me in the bottom 95% of guys in terms of realizing their sexual fantasies.
My actual desire for the threesome itself is actually quite low -- I care more about the ego factor as explained in my 2nd paragraph of this comment. For example I would argue (without knowing you) that the hottest woman I've ever had sex with is reasonably likely to be hotter than the hottest woman you've ever had sex with. (having had sex with an extremely beautiful woman is something I've always wanted to do at least once before I died)
Dr_Cockasaurus 5 months ago
This brings up a debate as old as time.
3 hb 7s threesome or 1 hb 9.
I would take the 3 hb 7s.
Fun Threesomes are rarer then Beautiful women. FACTS
Musicgoon425 5 months ago
This shit sounds fucking retarded. If you're too much a pussy to handle honesty with your wife, you aren't ready for a threesome. Yes it will fuck up your relationship. Most threesomes are fun, but not amazing.
No you won't crave a 4 some after that. If the 3some goes bad you won't crave it either.
My suggestion is continue on with this idea. Give it a shot. You don't sound like someone who has his shit together or has the balls to be direct.
Try it your way and let us know how it works out.
sundae411 5 months ago
Here is what keeps spinning through my head -- my wife is EXTREMELY sensitive to cheating -- for example the name "Hilda" and "Grace" are seared permanently into her mind because I had sexted with those 2 girls and (stupidly) gave my wife trickle-truth and it has caused extremely long-term hurt for her.
I don't want to hurt my wife. Having a threesome with her (assuming I can read my wife's mind) will definitely cause her to feel hurt and pain for decades. I have 100% ruled out having a threesome with her unless it just spontaneously happens while the one girl watch us have sex.
I'm in my 30's and running out of years to have opportunities to have threesomes with young beautiful women (without relying on prostitutes) in their early 20's. I need to make a decision by April and I will probably do more research about threesomes and make some posts on reddit later this month.
Thank you for your truthful opinion and I'm very glad you shared it with me and spoke in a clear & direct manner!
mattyanon 5 months ago
Bullshit.
The change is lack of exclusivity. That can change things.
The threesome itself, in my experience, makes zero difference to the relationship. Although in my case the relationships are Multiple Long Term Relationships where a non-regular is brought into the equation. Tonnes of fun, and makes no difference at all. But this is the non-exclusive-already case.
If she knows about it, I am guessing that this is exactly the same as doing a threesome WITH her.
Not sure how experienced you are with women, but there is a huge gap between two girls saying "sure, maybe" and it actually working out.
This is a fucking terrible plan.
If there is one thing that will freak women out, it is "oh by the way the woman won't be here, it's just me, the man, let's go". Doesn't matter if they believe it, they'll hate it and freak and want to get the fuck out of there.
This is not how women work.
Relaxation and safety are much bigger drives for women than sex.
Don't expect to meet and go straight to bed unless you really know what you're doing and are super good with making women feel both sexy and comfortable. From the way you talk, this is not you right now.
Meet this women one on one to start with. For coffee. Touch them a little, make them feel sexy and special, and then bail after an hour.
Straight from meeting to sex just isn't gonna work.
Most girls are into this, they'll do it if they are and they won't if they're not.
In conclusion:
sundae411 5 months ago
Thanks for the good advice and direct answers -- I think a threesome isn't for me. I just can't live with myself making my wife do it if she's not enthusiastic and I've known her 11 years (married for 7) and she is 0% bisexual and 0% lesbian. I also think doing it without my wife's knowledge won't work either -- both women interested in the threesome are ONLY okay with it because they falsely believe that my wife is enthused about it.
So I guess I'll die without a threesome under my belt... (or maybe in 10 years my wife will let me hire 2 young, beautiful Asian prostitutes -- there's always an extremely slim chance, lol)