Yesterday my ltr of 1 1/2 yrs came over. I don’t know how we got to the topic that we where discussing but we somehow did. She was saying that good looking men don’t have charisma and feel entitled to get laid once they are on a date.I felt a little different about her opinion but couldn’t give a flying fuck so I just listend and asked questions like how She came to this conclusions. Her respond was her past experience that when she went out with good looking men that they never invested a lot into the date. And gave me one Specific example about one guy who she went out with on 2 dates. After he did not get any he broke of contact with her and always had excuses for not going out with her. (Obviously he felt entitled in getting laid but did not have game to close the deal). Before meeting up with her for a 3rd date he said he’d only come by if he gets some which she rejected. This was before my time. Fast forward we got so deep into this topic that I guess she slipped and told me this dude wrote her 2 months ago and wanted to go out after chatting a bit. Before ltring this chick I laid down specific rules that if she comes into my world that my rules are she doesn’t meet up with guys from her past which she dated nor responds if they hit her up. Which she obviously broke. I immediately told her you broke the rules which I laid Down and that she has to leave and that we are done. I laid down these rules because I have never got cheated on but was the guy who women in relationship slept with. Basically it is a insecurity but I have seen to much of hoeing by women while spinning plates the last years.
Was this correct of me to end it. I guess a little bit of Oneitis is involved but I know I can get a rotation in 2 months again if I wanted. I really did like this chick so just wandering if I handled it right.

mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Yeah, it's basically true. Attractive guys don't have to do much. She knows it and she hates it. Of course the fact that the same applies to women doing fuck all on dates ever....... doesn't occur.
What she wants is for good looking guys who don't have to put in any effort to put in effort and be less attractive..... but she can't think it through in terms as clear as this. It's like a child saying "buy me this".... parents say "we can't afford it"...... child "buy me this anyway".
Subtext: men are not allowed to have options and need to serve women.
She is also trying to maintain innocence by citing this example, but she also has examples of fucking good looking men for zero investment.
90% of female speech is virtue signalling by either lying or ommission.
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It's not insecurity, it's a solid plan. If she's chatting up men online, she is not invested in the LTR.
Yes, she's chatting to men online and gating them for "better than current deal". Then accidentally telling you "this one did not meet the grade".
She's a FWB pretending to be in a relationship.
What other explanation is there? She's chatting to guys online who message her, but would never ever meet them? Come on dude, you've been the other guy enough to know that "I was just chatting for shits and giggles" is an outright lie ....... do you wanna be on the receiving end of "I never wanted it to happen, butttttttttttttttttt" ?
NotGoodWithUsernames 4y ago
You actually handled it great. Now she will fuck Chad Thundercock. Then Chad Thundercock will ghost after he gets what he wanted all along. Then she will come crawling back to you. Thats when you give the last blow and you block her.
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redhawkes 2 4y ago
This is trickle truth 101. Wanna bet the guy in question pumped and dumped her? Read the subtext, not the content.
That topic wasn't random at all.
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
Yup. I wholeheartedly agree.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4y ago
Well it's clear she never gave the disclaimer that she had a boyfriend while "chatting for a bit," hence why the dude asked her out
On top of that, she never told you, so what else isn't she telling you? This probably wasn't her only example of a guy reaching out, it's just the one she slipped saying.
Now the next guy she dates, she'll keep those details under lock and key. She probably already learned from previous relationships what to hide and just happened to let this slip.
She sounds undisciplined or purposefully keeping the doors open for what else is out there. Probably both
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