Hey, came here in hopes you could put me on the right track and help me get some pussy.
I'm 18, good looking and muscular - I do boxing and lift. I got laid once at 16 on the first date with a 19yo, so you could say I have some game. I've been focused on myself for some time + spent maybe more than a year in lockdowns on and off, so those are the main reasons why a haven't got laid more.
I'm currently talking to some girls and 2 of them are virgins. They both are emotionally invested in me, HMU for dates first etc. One of them also pushed for LTR 2 months ago, told her I'm not ready yet and threw her some bones to chew on. (Not planning to jump in a LTR in the next 20 years)
I don't have a car yet (Europe) since I turned 18 just recently, neither can invite chicks over.
How to tell them I want to take things further and have sex with them? Should I just go ahead and say it to them without beating around the bush?
whytehorse2021 2y ago
No, if you have to communicate overtly it comes across as beta. Just put your dick in them and they'll get the hint.
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Never say it overtly. This will trigger their anti slut defence.
What you do is move them towards sex. Touch them in person. Invite them over "to cook together and watch a movie". Make your moves in person. Let her tell herself that "it just happened".
Growing 2y ago
"Come see something."
" Wait. There's something on your face."
Reach out and rub her cheek getting nothing off her face.
Go behind her and turn her face as if you sre going to kiss her.
Rub that imaginary thing off her face
Pull her in quickly, then kiss an area, maybe her forehead.
"Now you look better"
all part of game. Makes her comfortable with you touching her
Get her to do something that requires her to face away from you.
Pull her hair to one side and kiss her neck.
Then retreat.
Talk some more then
"I think you are really not understanding me"
Turn her (she'll think you are turning her for her to listen to you. ASD get's lowered. ) Then, with dominance, kiss her.
Break the kis. Shift location. Kiss her. Go for fucking. Get her to do all the things you want her to do.
After sex, build comfort. This halts her from sex regret and clears you from "I didn't plan for the sex, so I didn't consent to it, so it might be rape. Wait? If it is a might, then it is. That guy raped me!"
She'll mostly come for round two.
It's more of game. If you play your alpha well, it's only about game.
Feel free to tweak this comment to how it applies to your life .
chadchaddington 2y ago
Best advice so far. Thank you a lot!
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fantantric 2y ago
I know less about women than anyone, but in my experience, once it becomes physical, it can escalate pretty quickly, so you have to propose some kind of activity that involves physical contact
PSYCHOKILLA 2y ago
you stupid ass motherfucker
pfeilmacher 2y ago
Get them into your apartment or their apartment. It's assumed that sexual activity will happen there. Just escalate once you get them alone.
Start with a kiss. It's not hard.