I met this girl on a dating site, she is 33 I am 32. I know her for 2 months now. We went out on a couple of dates, she was really into me, after the third date we started having sex. She was really pleased. Every morning she would send mi cute pictures and write how much she likes me etc. We went out on a date to a "spider show" she absolutely loved it. She would cancel her meeting with her parents and told me that she prefers to spend this time with me and only when I cant she will go to her parents(100km away). Recently had some rough time but it was not a big deal, after that she started withdrawing sex. Last week "Im on my peroid" and she had a breakout on her lip(it's called a cold?). This week she told me she's going to her parents and we won't meet. She also did not want to go to the Christmas stales in the city(previously was asking to go). I openly asked if everything was OK and if she was happy, she said that yes and we are grownups she would tell me if something would be wrong. I thought it was sus so I checked and her dating profile. The previously deactivated dating account was reactivated(she asked me to delete mine after we started sleeping together). Should I just drop the bomb a break up ?
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manlyCupcake 2y ago
I moved this post to "redpill me" how can I delete this one ?
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Right..... how did you react to the rough time? Did you show weakness?
Could be a cold sore, they're nasty and infectious.
As always judge her by her actions not her words.
haha..... she asked you to delete yours so she can recreate hers without you knowing.
Nope.
She's a friends with benefits. Keep seeing her (when sex is a possibilty), and FUCK OTHER WOMEN.
manlyCupcake 2y ago
I drank too much alcohol and was fucked up for a day. She got pissed. She's also mad cause she's at that age where she expects a potential baby daddy and I`m not one yet at least not in her eyes. Showed a little weakness. She's also withdrawing by not sending the lovely-dove images and hardly even initiates contact(she says its because teachers are sick and she has more work). But still she recreated the profile just at a glance of some bad time. I don't want to keep fucking her and I'm disillusioned so I think dropping her is fair and good.
Hanscheezburger 2y ago
Drop her but you dont need to make it obvious like breaking up etc. Ignore, ghost her and go do your own thing. They usually come back when they can't find a better option
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Yeah, she's found someone else who she believes will do the baby daddy thing........ wait, does this mean she has a kid???
Right.
Oh yes absolutely..... going from totally-into you to distant is reason enough to ditch. Reactivating dating profile means she's a FWB at best.
manlyCupcake 2y ago
Nah, she doesn't have a kid. Just baby rabies.
koedeloe123 2y ago
What do you mean, break up? You've known her for 2 months....
Just soft next her, let her reach out, focus on other girls.