Do any of you guys put up with that bullshit? I got a hb7's number 2 days ago and I decided to call her on the phone today to talk. She seems to be busy a lot because she works during the day and then goes out with her friends into the city at night. Anyways, I asked her if she wanted to hang out later this week because she agreed to coffee when I approached her in person. As you read from the title, that's the response I got. I asked her "maybe?" and she said "yeah, we'll see". Without getting mad I said I'll see her later and she told me she'll text me. I met this chick at the gym, so should I just approach other girls there for the time being and try again with THIS one in the next few weeks? It's something that AMS made a video on.
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mattyanon about a year ago
no
calling, awesome.
You should have a plan, hope it was you telling her the plan rather than asking if she's free.
Right, gotcha
Ok - yes absolutely talk to other girls, why the fuck wouldn't you??
Here's how to handle this:
When a girl takes a step back, YOU take a step back. "Maybe" is a step back. So now YOU take a step back.
For example:
"Let's hang out and do whatever on Thursday"
"Maybe"
"Yeah, so not sure about work and things, I'll try and carve out some time after the gym, I'll let you know if I'm free closer to the time".
Now this doesn't exactly make sense given that you offered, but she actually won't notice that and she'll feel the plausible backing off. This makes you the chooser and her the chaser hoping you'll be free.
As she started all this maybe shit, the next step is to cancel on the day, tell her you'll give her a call sometime.
Then next time you call, you say "Yeah, let's do Tuesday". If you get another maybe, straight up tell her that you can't be bothered with her anymore.
koedeloe123 about a year ago
Nope, don't waste your time on girls like this, don't even bother hitting them up in a few weeks. The sooner you realize this, the better.
User4566 about a year ago
So hit on more at the gym/school?
koedeloe123 about a year ago
Personally, I don't hit on girls at the gym/school. Girls at school are fine, if they're not in your class, though. Just approach girls wherever you go, but don't shit where you eat (the gym/classes/work)
User4566 about a year ago
I guess. I don't see a problem with it as long as you're not touching her and saying sexual things. I'm not going to get in trouble for talking to girls at my gym or school like most Red Pillers say. I also know how to read body language so I know when I'm annoying people.