I get girls numbers, no problem. The real problem is getting them to do anything. They show some form of interest in person and then they act all low interest over the phone. They're all of a sudden "too busy" to text back when we all know women are on their phones no less than 8 hours a day. Fuck all of this shit, it's starting to piss me off that I get girls numbers but it always leads to no where. Should I be more assertive with these bitches? What the hell am I doing wrong?
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PSYCHOKILLA 4y ago
go lift you stupid motherfucker, you think about hoes too much
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User4566 4y ago
Idk man, I'm 6'4" so most girls are midgets to me. As long as she has a fat ass, I guess.
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User4566 4y ago
You don't have to make it long term. Maybe she will change your mind, anyway. I don't expect anything long term with girls unless they push for it. I think you'll find that one out after you date/fuck her if she's looking for dick or a relationship.
Where do you find these little bitches lmao you have my interest
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User4566 4y ago
Oh then don't feel bad for treating her like a toy.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4y ago
Are you making plans with them BEFORE getting their number, or getting their number first?
I ALWAYS try to set up plans first (coffee, etc.) before I ever mention a phone number. Because you know if they want to date you FIRST.
As Roosh puts it in either Bang or Day Bang (I don't remember) women will give out their number for a litany of reasons, some having to do with not wanting to reject you in-person, where they face risk of backlash.
Are you setting up plans before you ask for the number or no? A number is practically meaningless unless used as the intermediary for dating, which may not always be the reason women hand out their number to begin with
User4566 4y ago
I always talk for about 5 minutes, then ask if they want to go for coffee. If yes, I give then my number.
Sometimes if I'm not in a hurry and the girl is still giving off uncomfortable body language, I may talk to them for as long as 45 minutes until they start getting more comfortable around me like giving me the "oh, you think I'm sexy??" body posture and are smiling and giggling. It varies with who I approach, some girls are easy like the ones who are really attracted or disgusted at the sight of me. It's the one's that are "on the fence" with me that I've been running into lately.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4y ago
45 minutes is probably way too long. 5 might be too short. Do they ask you any personal questions at all? That's a good sign of psychological investment if they get to the point of asking personal questions
User4566 4y ago
They're women, they love talking about themselves.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4y ago
They do, but if they're not asking you personal questions as well, they're probably not mentally invested enough
koedeloe123 4y ago
Definitely, I have the same issue. Getting a number means nothing nowadays. I had girls answer my messages slow as fuck, but as soon as they went out on a date with me, they'd blow up my phone. Guess you need to build more rapport. What works for me is calling them for 5 minutes, make them laugh, and leave at the peak of the conversation.
Where are you meeting these girls? If you're getting them through online apps, then it's obvious why they're acting uninterested (too many options). But if you're approaching girls in real life, and they're still answering slow, I guess it means that you need to build more rapport first to make her feel comfortable, hence the 5 minute phone call. You'd be surprised how much it helps.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Right. Girls flake like mad. Getting their numbers means nothing - girls will hand anyone their phone.
Another factor is that while you're there, you're the one guy she's talking to. When you're not there, you're one of 500 orbiters.
Well, it's fairly normal.
Here's what can help:
Eg...... "you're fun, we should hang out sometime" / "yeah, that would be awesome" / "You free Saturday to go to this cool bar I know?"