She is at her best behavior, buying me shit, doing anything sexually I want and acting extremely submisive and she knows I have other girls and don't care, I'm considering making her my main girl.
She only has one issue, she is contantly sending me pictures of food, a dog she saw, herself, literally anything, I usually go hours without answering her, and answer her 6 or 8 hours later or the next day, but she keeps doing it, should I ask her if she's trying to open a restaurant or what?
Why is she sending me pictures of food she is cooking? I literally don't care, I don't want to come up overtly rude, but I'm getting sick of it, should I just continue ignoring bullshit pics?
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Congratulations. You got her hamster spinning nonstop over you. It might be annoying but there are much worse things a woman can do. My only concern is that it may be love-bombing which is typical of BPD and narcissists.
redguy91 4y ago
Just ignore. Maybe reconsider LTR as she sounds high maintenance (need lots of attention). This is a semi red flag as girls like this love to have orbiters and its too easy for them to branch swing. Text only strictly for logistics.
Musicgoon425 4y ago
Every day, my 70 year old mom sends a stupid cat or animal picture and a dumb narration of the pic?
Do you know why? Because she's lonely. Your new bitch is lonely. She will probably be clingy and high maintenance.
Do what you want with her, but realize she is locking you down. Or at least trying to.
Growing 4y ago
Comfort.
She probably thinks who will be less judgemental and since you are the man with her, she's comfortable.
It's a good thing for an LTR. Since you remain nonchalant to the photos, she doesn't get the validation she wants so she sends more. Nonchalance and aloofness are attractive traits.
If however, you spot that she starts leveraging the "love" she has sent your way, that's where you start making your statements of fact.
"I know you want abcd. But for now efgh works for me. I'll let you know when abcd time is here"
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
DO NOT even broach the subject of an LTR and until SHE brings it up.
nightlyphoenixx 4y ago
As others have said, it can be a sign of high maintenance (overly needy of attention), but can also be simpler, namely that she is highly invested, she has really strong attraction for you and therefore invests time and texting behaviour (compare to low investment monosyllables you get from some chicks). This also lines up with what you're saying about her sexual and financial investment, i.e. doing anything in bed and buying you stuff. She may just really dig you.
SeasonedRP 2 4y ago
Because women do things like this. It's not a bad sign. Just don't worry about it.
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