I think I'm unconsciously putting hot girls on a pedestal. Today I was thinking about all the girls I've fucked, and most of them were average. I had a girl over last weekend, and even though nothing was wrong with her, I was barely in the mood to fuck her. I'm at this point where I'm not excited about fucking average looking girls anymore. I think I've only fucked like 3 girls who were 8/10+, and sex with them was so much better. Most of my plates are like 6/10, I don't even enjoy fucking them. Last girl I was fucking, I stopped mid fuck because I was bored and couldn't cum.
My SMV is at the highest level it's ever been. I have girls who approach me, hit on me, ask for my number, ... But it's like I have a mental block where I don't even bother hitting on the chicks I genuinely want. I don't think my SMV is too low, because at festivals I've hooked up with plenty of hot women, but that usually goes nowhere due to bad logistics.
Before anyone tells me to get my test levels checked, I did, they're fine. Anyone else experienced this? Getting bored by average girls? How did you move from average to hot plates?
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
After you’ve “had enough” of them, the fun all but leaves. After a while you start to realize that the sex in general is pretty much the same, with regard to how it feels to you. Sex is a very small (but important) part of any relationship; however, what makes it better is if you actually like spending time with the girl outside of a sexual nature.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you per se. I just think the new car smell has worn off for you.
Good luck man.
spacecowboy 4y ago
Great analogy
koedeloe123 4y ago
Pretty accurate... Spinning plates makes me feel empty inside. I've been doing it for nearly 6 years now, and during this period there has only been one girl who I genuinely liked spending time with. But she had too many red flags, so it went nowhere. And I won't lie, I caught oneitis for her...
Thanks you.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
You should, you'll get some of them.
You're languishing in the "ok, good enough" zone when you could do so much better with a bit more effort.
Hot girls is the next step up. It takes a bit of effort. You'll get the hang of it, but you gotta do it.
koedeloe123 4y ago
Thanks, man. I'll definitely give it a shot. There's no point in going for girls I don't feel attracted to...
SgtBuchannon99 4y ago
Its just out your comfort zone. If youve had 1, 2, or 3, it means you can technically have 100, or 1000 doesnt it?
obviously that hyperbole, but you need to raise the floor, the ceiling is there. Raising the floor in this context means approaching more hot girls. Shooting more shots with hot girls. Not autorejecting due to your "safe" zone and old mentality of getting average girls. Shed that skin off. Its old news.
koedeloe123 4y ago
You're right, I need to get out of my comfort zone.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
I'm kinda the opposite. I don't think I could be aroused by a 6 but where I come from a 6 is only slightly obese and a 10 is any woman that isn't fat. :)