Gonna be traveling to a country where it’s legal soon.
Been going through an epic dry spell recently(10 months) and I’m just getting kind of frustrated. I lift, I dress well, I think I’m decently attractive and I even get approached by girls once in a while when I’m at bars. Still, I must have approached like 100 girls (no exaggeration) in the last 3 months and just can’t get laid (although I did make out with 1). I get in long conversations all the time, but something always seems to go wrong.. At this point, I’ve spent way more time and money trying to get laid then what the escort would charge. Wwyd?
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Do you TOUCH THEM?
Do it, it will help you feel sexual around women.
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NeoSpartan 4y ago
Wtf are you doing to screw it up? Long convos... should mean ur in. Are you really shitty at dates? No I would not pay for a dirty version of what I could get for free. Just get better at whatever you are sucking at dude.
SheLarror1234 4y ago
Escorts and disease are like bread and flour. Unless your willing to get genital problems, or a risk of HIV, or other STD/STIs then go ahead. The anxiety about your health status will kill you before the diseases do anyways.
Some stuff is not worth the squeeze bra. Get some post nut clarity then think again. Your better off spending your money elsewhere because escorts are not even cheap for what they will give you. I'd rather recommend going to a wild club, or even buying a high end sexdoll before i'd recommend an escort tbh.
If your still able to travel I recommend going out of state/country where your SMV is higher naturally, before hiring an escort.
And it seems like the problem irl may be with your initiative. You get approached by girls in the bar but cant seal the deal? Be more bold with your sexuality and lust. You said you have long conversations so maybe your just wayy too friendly and nice. If a girl hits on me or even approaches me in the club in not telling her how her day was, I'm telling her she looks good then to "come here" i cant hear you. Whether that's for me to grab her waist a little to talk a little closer or to dance with her etc.
Are you touching these girls? You kissed but did you do anything after? How can a girl let you kiss her, but not let you play with her body? Its rare that i would kiss a girl but not have sealed the deal with her, whether is was right then or later. Kissing is more intimate than sex
placer 4y ago
I second the recommendation to travel. For a white person, anywhere in Latin America (except Chile or Argentina), Southeast Asia, or Africa are a lot easier, especially if one learns the local language.
My preference is Latin America because Spanish is relatively easy to learn.
pfeilmacher 4y ago
Do what you got to do, but paying an escort or throwing a few bones to a sugar baby isn't going to fix your GAME PROBLEMS.
You really need to identify what the root cause is here.
Without knowing anything about you, I suggest shutting the fuck up. Stop talking so much to girls.
You're mouth is probably getting in the way of your dick.
But, yeah....pay some whore if you must. We don't give a shit.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
I do it as much as possible. I prefer a good Bangkok street whore over a "free" American slut every time. Just think of it as a cost/benefit analysis and go where whores are cheapest. I have more money than time so I lose money/time by dating and dealing with women who are fucktards.