Hi
I remember being treated badly by an alpha male in front of a group of people in the past. Examples of insults I don't know how to reply in front of a large crowd of men for instance :
- You are fucking gay!
- Are you a man? You are a bitch !
- He is like a child, do I need to babysit him?
- You look like a fucking girl!
I feel that replying "maybe you are right" is really dumb. Ignore insult in front of a group of acquaintances looks weak.
What are your tips to reply/manage bullies? On the spot, I never have witty sentences in my mind.
If somebody tells me that I have a big nose or I am ugly I don't mind saying "maybe you are right !".
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CapThomas 4y ago
Can you give me an example of bully him back ? Should I just say something like "you are a fucking moron" or something like this?
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thermodynamic 4y ago
I always felt agree and amplify was a lame ass way to make a comeback
SgtBuchannon99 4y ago
You are seen as beta and are in a losing position, no matter how snappy your reply is. Honestly here's my take:
you are fucking gay - guys normally just say this to throw shit around for shits and giggles and maybe to trigger a friend
are you a man? you a bitch! - normally this is usually thrown around for shits and giggles too. you can tell if there's some weight behind this usually, if you did some bitch shit.
He is like a child - this one isn't usually thrown around loosely unless you are being a beta boi. You have probably been complaining, whining, not leading, not holding your weight, just a plain liability. Reflect on this one because there's usually a good reason they call you out with this one.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Rollo just did a show on this. There are 3 main AMOG destroyers:
Ignore him and focus on the girl. Eventually he'll feel like an ass trying to interrupt
Befriend the guy. It depends on how dark triad he is because if he's really out to get you it will be hard to disam him this way.
How well these work depends on the situation. If the AMOG is Leonardo DiCaprio you'll just get blown out of the water.
CapThomas 4y ago
Basically at one of those occasions, i was with my girlfriend and he said this to my wife: "do I need to babysit CaptThomas ?" I felt hurt but I STFU. Later on, I retaliated with something else. But it was maybe too late.
thermodynamic 4y ago
there are also comebacks you could make on leonardo DiCaprio
SgtBuchannon99 4y ago
3 is fucking really bad. never mention "alpha"...