Hey OG'S
Matched with a girl on Tinder, moved to whatsapp setup a date.
The date : Last Tuesday with a shy girl, kino whenever possible and took her on variety of emotions by palm reading talking about passions, fears, memories and ended the date on a kiss.
Waited until 30 hours before texting her again.
Me : Hb6.5.. Hb6.5: yeah? Me : I really had a good time with you(I want you but I don't need you frame) And she left me on read.
Other than nexting, anyway I can recover? Really appreciate your time and input with this
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
If she didn't answer to "I had a really good time with you", ditch.
NotGoodWithUsernames 4y ago
''I want you but I don't need you frame''...You literally texted her some corny shit 30 minutes after the date ended, guess what that comes off as, exactly, needy as fuck. They should be texting you after a first date, not you. She sensed the neediness and scarcity from miles away.
Sarcasticgemini 4y ago
30 hours bro.
NotGoodWithUsernames 4y ago
Point still stands
pfeilmacher 4y ago
That was a terrible text. Don't beat yourself up over it.....most of us have done worse.
Remember that GIRLS HATE YOUR FEELINGS. They only want to talk about their own feelings. Don't share yours with a girl. There are exceptions to this rule, but just stick with this as a default for now. (In fact, I just had the same discussion about this with my FWB 7.5......she told me how much she is repulsed by emotional men. She's also the best lay I've ever had...and does threesomes.)
Let your awful text cool off for a week or two, then tell her to meet you at XYZ at 8pm. She'll either agree, ignore, or change the day/time on you.
If she ignores, then she's dead to you.....so move on.
Sarcasticgemini 4y ago
Thanks pfeil, well instead of my better judgment, I listened to my female housemate ended here. Anyway I have more motivation to nightgame today and tomorrow.
Corneliuscaruso 4y ago
Don’t ever listen to her advice
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Hanscheezburger 4y ago
Tell her you're planning to do something or go somewhere this weekend and say it'd be great if she could join.
Don't feel bad if she says no. They decide based on their emotions at the moment. Make a backup plan with friends or better, other girls and enjoy yourself.
Next time I'd just skip telling her how you feel (about her or the date), it creates pressure and many women don't like that. Just move to setting up another date and she'd understand that you liked the last one.
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Sarcasticgemini 4y ago
Haha well she is from Boston. But she is the foreigner here since I live in major European city .
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Sarcasticgemini 4y ago
Yeah west Europe. I never been or dated any eastern European so will definitely prioritize them next. But now will use this as motivation for some nightgame.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Not much you can do. Soft next and spend time getting a better woman that's interested.
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Sarcasticgemini 4y ago
Replace Hb6.5 with name like Alice and read again.
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Sarcasticgemini 4y ago
You could be right. Need to screen what they are looking for during date to set expectations right. Because she did mention she is only here for few months.
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Sarcasticgemini 4y ago
That's the thing I used deep rapport model by Richard la ruina, so at end I knew alot about her and she very little about me.