I’ve heard that going in the field should be fun but I don’t find it fun most of the time.
I work pretty much everyday and I’m beat at the end of the day, the only time I’m uplifting/charismatic is when I get paid lol. This feeling is rapidly decreasing though because I’m getting used to checks from my small business.
I’m thinking I should get more sleep and with the season affecting my line of work I’ll be outside less. How do I have fun spitting game though? There’s gotta be some mind trick that can make me believe it is a game and I’m just leveling up or something like that.
Im usually just too tired to care.
shootinglikekobe 4y ago
Relatable. ATP I focus on it but don't make it a big deal. Literally if I see a cute girl somewhere I'll just start talking to her. People on here talking about "daygame" kind of sound like incels ngl.
Women shouldn't be your main focus, they come with work anyway. Just incorporate it into your normal thinking/habits. Flirt with girls that come into your business while keeping it professional (don't ask for numbers). At the grocery store on your way home? Talk to one of the goofy girls that work there.
Growing 4y ago
Glad to see I'm not alone in this.
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
Honestly, this whole “game” thing is stupid. It’s faking it at best and manipulation at worst. The best “game” and “frame” you can have is not giving a fuck and doing what you want to do without caring what some chick wants.
BabyUareSoSexy 4y ago
Any chance you watch porn? I'm asking because I'm reading the book 'Your brain on porn' and most of your problems are mentioned in the book.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Yes
Also see if you can get a nap before you head out.
Also look at eating a meal before heading out, this can help your energy levels. Same for lifting and cardio.
Mind game / levelling up is trying to create a barrier between you and reality.
Another way is to find a way to enjoy it. What do you enjoy talking about? Talk about that. What do you enjoy doing? Do that.... with the compromise that girls have to be present if you want to have sex with girls.
Another approach is to try your best to be the man you want to be. Who do you want to be, who do you want to become? Work that out, and then do that.
Another another approach is to daygame girls on a weekend and forget the night scene entirely.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Well, to be honest, the stats make it look pretty bleak. I gave up 17 years ago and never looked back. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. Why jump through all the hoops to get a hoe-bag modern woman when you can get a traditional whore for half the price?
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