Title. I don't know if I messed up somewhere or if that's a normal thing to say. She randomly asked me if we both should check out other people together to "judge" them. I told her cool lmk when you spot a hot chick and I'd tell her if I spot a hot chick. Then she asks if I wouldn't spot hot guys for her and I said no. I just told her I'm not really interested in that and went to the gym. After I got back, she became apologetic and told me that she just wanted to judge other people with me and was bothered I would be fine with chicks but not guys. Tf is this bullshit. We're not even been in the same city the past month. I know she's overthinking about something or trying to get me used to this so she can ask me for something later on. Either way, I'm not comfortable about this and I'm downgrading her to a plate. Any help would be much appreciated. Am I overreacting?
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LeeroysBackInJailAgain 4y ago
First its "Lets judge hot girls and guys together."
Then its "Lets have a threesome with a hot girl together."
Then its "Lets have a foursome with a hot couple together."
Then its "I want to open up our relationship together."
Then eventually its "I want you to watch while Chad and/or Tyrone plow my brains out, and i want you to like it. And if you dont, im just gonna go behind your back and do it anyway and/or divorce you."
Are you sure that's a road you wanna start walking down, my friend?
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Ahhhhhhh relax. This sounds like a fun activity.
She wants to be open about her (and your) sexuality. This will give you insight into her fidelity and willingness to do threesomes.
Chill and go with it, it sounds like fun to me.
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
You want to shut that shit down? Next time you two are in public and she mentions how hot a guy is, grab her hand, approach the guy and tell him that you think your girlfriend wants to fuck him.
She’ll either fuck him or she’ll get upset and embarrassed and never do it again. After that, tell her to never fucking disrespect you ever again in a calm and masculine tone.
Either way, you win.
Backflipper69 4y ago
It has never happened in IRL. She's just talking. Does it mean she has lost a little bit of attraction or respect to me? Or is she trying to see where I stand in threesomes and stuff? She's openly kissed her two best girl friends in front of me and promised she had never done that before (lol). And she has spotted hot women multiple times in public and asked me what I think.
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
It’s either disrespect or she sensed some weakness in you and she’s testing you. Regardless, I’d just treat her as a plate and have fun with her. She doesn’t think high enough of you, because if she did, she’d be too worried of fucking things up with you and she would never consider acting like that.
Backflipper69 4y ago
Yeah I figured that, I've been slipping for a few weeks. Thanks man
SeasonedRP 2 4y ago
She sounds like a ditz.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
That's how girls spend time together socializing. Maybe she thinks you're one of the girls. I'd be the same, wtf is this bullshit? Go do that with other girls.
Semenbaptism 4y ago
You're overreacting.
You should have said "Sure" and pointed at yourself and disregarded what she wanted to do/Pointed at a guy you know she's clearly not attracted to and teased her about it being her new boyfriend.
Your girl is shit testing you and you've failed. She's clearly trying to make you jealous and it worked. This was an agree and amplify moment.
Backflipper69 4y ago
That was exactly what I was lol. I failed I know. But damn, that's one shit test I'd have never seen coming