Good morning everyone, thanks for taking the time to read this post. First tings first; This is for guys that believe in LTRs as the answer will be obvious for everyone who doesn't believe in them.
I recently got into a relationship with a very pretty girl (20 years old, straight 10/10, at least 4 dudes hitting on her every time we go out etc.). We were fwb for about 3 months until we both caught feelings. As she just started studying, she is short on money and looking for cash. She told me that she had previously thought of becoming a stripper and opening an Onlyfans account, ONLY if I was ok with it. I know for a fact that she would never do this if I said no, so I did (she previously fixed her sleep schedule because I told her that I would never date someone that goes to bed at 3 and wakes up at 11). She will refrain from sex work, but this whole situation got me re-thinking the relationship. She is the perfect text book red pill woman, 90% of all red pill concepts apply directly to her. She loves validation, likes attention and, in my opinion is too aware of what her looks do to men around her. When we talked about stripping she said "I can bend over and men will literally cum in their pants". I can't quite put a name on it but her love for attention, the arrogance in the statement and her willingness to strip and model on Onlyfans all sound like big red flags to me, even tho I know that she won't do these things if I tell her not to.
My question is: How do you think I should deal with this situation? She is a great girl with the best warm hearted character that I have ever dated. I am very much able to take a step back and look at the situation from a sober perspective but I still can't decide how I should feel about the stripper/OF problem. Her willingness to indulge in such things says something about her character that I hadn't seen before. Is she still a datable girl that has the potential to become the mum of my future kids one day, or does her behaviour point towards a relationship that is set up to fail?
DA9L 4y ago
id do it with her and split the cash, u can break up after
she's def not real LTR material
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
10s, if there is such a thing, belong to the community.
Btw, she’s going to do OF whether you like it or not . She may have already started one…but she will.
koedeloe123 4y ago
I swear, this sub is getting more ridiculous by the day. No way someone is this retarded, must be a troll.
SheLarror1234 4y ago
Bruh lately I've been thinking the same thing rofl.
hannulv 4y ago
Iron rule of Stanklowski #654: To tame a hooker with a heart of gold, you must impregnate her just before the wedding.
JS51 4y ago
Not looking for marriage but thanks
shootinglikekobe 4y ago
Not a good look imo. I'd fuck w/ a girl from OF/Stripper, but exclusively date and show off? NGL you buggin with this one LOL
You think she's hot shit until some rich dude who takes interest in her offers 3K for a night w/ her, and she seriously considers it. Fuck w/ her and treat her decent, but to catch feelings and commit to her? Not a good look boss
JS51 4y ago
Thank you, this is really profound.
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JS51 4y ago
Thanks for you long reply. She is great, especially cuz she isn't a snowflake haha. I definitely won't let her strip or make an OF while she is with me. She will have to find a different job. For me it's more about the willingness to consciously manipulate men and take advantage of them that makes me question her "heart of gold". I think I came to the conclusion that she has a lot of other good characteristics like loyalty, creativity, talent and so on. As long as she keeps all of those, I'm fine with her. If she loses them, I probably won't be able to look over the her OF considerations anymore and will have to end it. Thank you!
ThrowawayRP 4y ago
Either you're over-stating that she's a 10/10 or something's not right here.
If this post is real, the fact that she is seriously considering it, and would almost certainly do it of she were single, is all you need to know.
If you don't think wanting to be a stripper/onlyfans girl bleeds into every other area of your relationship, I don't know what to tell you
whytehorse2021 4y ago
There's an actual story where a guy did this with his pure virgin catholic E. European wife. She monkey branched once the cash was rolling in. There's another true story about a suicidal 13yr old whose classmates found his mom's only fans and passed her nudes around. She sounds like a hoe to even consider it, and a lazy person too. Just tell her to go ahead and do only fans, break up with her, and then show us her nudes, lol.
JS51 4y ago
Yeah I feel like the cash makes them arrogant. Thanks, I think I've found my answer