ok so context: sending this to super hot blonde babe that curved me. i ended up simping hard and basically threw a tantrum. since then pretty much no contact BUT she recently matched me on tinder + searched and requested to connect on linked in lol. which makes me think there’s gotta be some small lining of a chance. we’re also in college; she’s in a sorority and i’m in the most prestigious major at my school while running a pretty successful business.
here goes.
i’m just gonna say i acted like an insecure, needy ass child and that’s not who i am at all. i lived completely by myself since covid started in 2019 and that definitely took a toll on my day to day social skills. i’d hella appreciate a second chance; wanna get brunch or some chit?
pls help me lol. ik it’s definitely not alpha to try to rekindle after she already rejected me but idc; i like what i like. she’s easily the hottest girl at my school and i’ve already smashed hella times so ik i can again. have also been lifting and losing weight like crazy; ppl are noticing and asking me if i lost weight; i’m fitting in size small shirts again so have definitely improved my physique (no abs yet but the dad bod has been significantly toned down lol)
RPEsq 4y ago
No explanation. Hit her up as if nothing happened.
financehardo420 4y ago
so i later this week i just be like hey wanna grab brunch w me?
RPEsq 4y ago
Why are you not trying to do a night-time date with this girl?
financehardo420 4y ago
i guess a big reason is like 99.99% of the restaurants in my college town suck ass but there’s a nice semi boujiee restaurant that serves the best breakfast food ever. i also just genuinely love breakfast food so if imma cheat on my diet imma cheat w some fire breakfast food lmao.
should i just ask her out for dinner then? semi fancy italian spot or like one of those “modern” taco spots?
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
Brunch is for girlfriends. Go out for a drink at a chill bar or pub. Nothing loud and something with a very low investment.
financehardo420 4y ago
fair enough bro i’m gonna run it. should i shoot for meeting up on the weekend or try for like somewhere mid week like thurs?
she’s in greek life so ik they’re always getting busy w that shit. i pledged a frat a while ago but dropped bc i was having too much fun and not focusing on my studies.
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
Always be thinking in reverse with logistics for sex in mind. Meet up on an evening to where neither of you have work or school the next day so there’s no stress of waking up and being late.
financehardo420 4y ago
this guy fucks. i’m gonna ask her out for thurs night fuck it
financehardo420 4y ago
said “wanna do dinner/drinks on @ [pub name] on thursday?”
it’s in God’s hands now boys
financehardo420 4y ago
instant reply: “i’m sorry i don’t have this number saved who is this” was her answer
financehardo420 4y ago
no answer after i said it was me. fml lol
financehardo420 4y ago
if she doesn’t reply tonight should i try double texting with this or is it a lost cause?
“i was kinda hoping to give you my schpiel in person… i’m fully aware i acted like an insecure ass little bitch boy but that’s not who i am at all. i was by myself for 2yrs since pandemic started; my social skills clearly took a toll. gimmie the benefit of the doubt and get dinner w me smh”
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
She’s playing dumb. She knows it’s you. It’s done brother. Delete her number and never contact her ever again and IF she ever does contact you in the future, SHE has to come to YOUR place. If she hims and haws and doesn’t want to, let it go. You have to put forth less energy than she does.
Under absolutely NO circumstances are you to ever initiate contact with her EVER again.
If you were Drake or Chris Hemsworth she’d be all over you. She doesn’t think highly of you whatsoever.
Good luck man.
financehardo420 4y ago
lol i didn’t see this in time and hit her with the schpiel text. maybe she bites maybe she doesn’t. cest la vie lol
koedeloe123 4y ago
Iron Rule of Tomassi #7
It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
Honestly, take the L and move on to other women. You're putting her on a pedestal already.
financehardo420 4y ago
it’s funny bc after the whole ordeal i kinda went on a nice wave of self improvement and am still on it. i started out just wanting to make myself more alpha so i can get her back buuuut after reading rational male and other redpill chits and applying the principles i’ve started to care way less as i see bigger picture.
bigger picture: since i’m in the most prestigious field of study @ my school; it’s safe to say i’ll be earning big bucks. proper financial mgmt should yield a 10-20m+ net worth by the end of my career. all she (and tbh prolly like 99% of other women out there) got to offer me is some good looks, some preowned pussy, and a job that’ll bring home less than 6 figs/will hardly make a dent in my early retirement plan. to top it off, most of the good looking girls tend to be dumb (they don’t have to study) so they’ll only dilute my future kid’s natural intelligence levels. and of course in the long term there’s always the nice 50/50 odds of getting divorce raped and losing half of your life’s work :)
i have moved on to other women and i’ve been successfully spinning plates. when one moves on there is absolutely always another ready to take her spot. abundance. but i also feel kind of empty with these women. aside from sexual attraction; i don’t have any emotional connection to them at all. i fuck, i nut, and then i say i have to wake up early and send them home. cool and all but getting boring to me personally. idk i think i would like to have at least some kind of personal connection w my plates.
Corneliuscaruso 4y ago
Don't date to feel fulfilled, date because it's a side quest. You need to get to the point where you get the message from her actions instead of her words. "Who is this" She doesn't desire you. Next.
In the past, I've almost made the mistake of texting a girl similar to what you said about how you lack social skills. Don't do this. Women don't care about your struggles and they certainly don't want to baby you, she wants a winner who's got his shit together. I can tell you're new to this because of the autobiography you wrote above this. It's all good, watch rollos live streams on his yt channel, that's a good place to start.
financehardo420 4y ago
yea i’m not gonna lie my gut feeling to her saying she didn’t have my number saved = it’s def an rip.
i’m new to reading red pill theory and all that but tbh i think i unconsciously redpilled myself to an extent. when i was 19 (i’m 26 now) i had my first LTR for like 2 years. looking back it never should have been a relationship in the first place lol. but long story short ended so badly i resolved to never get emotionally involved w a girl until postgrad and up till recently it’s worked pretty well. i stopped counting how many women i’ve been with once i got to somewhere in the 40s.
prior to me blowing my shot we met up and fucked a couple times even tho i was mad overweight (skinny me is 135lb-140lb; i weighed 180 when i most recently smashed). im down to ab 160 now so im like halfway there haha.
idk bro. in terms of being a winner/having shit together i think i qualify: i’m white but im a first generation american. my parents are dirt poor immigrants.
my college route has been rather untraditional; im 26 finishing up my undergrad degree. buuut it’s very prestigious - ranked top 10 worldwide and im gonna make six figures starting. i also got rich as fuck off pot -i’ve been clearing 6 figs a year since i was 17 and i’ve saved up religiously. recently retired from that line of work and opened up a legit sneaker resell store which is starting to turn a dec profit. i’m about to buy a super sick car (amg benz/tesla model 3) for my age and own 3 rolex watches. what else does a guy gotta do to win and get the beautiful rich american blonde girl w the blue eyes bro
Corneliuscaruso 4y ago
Your frame. You will eventually realize that money and status isn’t the end all be all with women. If that works for getting lays it’s purely transactional. You want what most guys want, validation sex. How you get that is setting your frame. For validation sex to work she has to need you more than you need her. You shouldn’t have to worry what she thinks. Not discrediting your achievements as that plays a big role in the grand scheme of things, just note understanding woman’s nature and learning how to enforce your boundaries is just as important. She does something you don’t like? Next. This all comes with an abundance of sexual experience. Pm me, I want to say more but it’s too much for text.