I just turned 25 and I've been "red pilled" for about the last 3 years, not just to women but the world in general. And recently, I've had no desire to pursue women at all, no desire to date seriously which is normal but not even a real desire to pursue the cat like I used too. I don't have trouble attracting them or talking to them, I'm 6'1 190 7% BF, shredded, Im a model, a 4x Grappling gold medalist, and entrepreneur; I have 0 confidence issues I believe I can do anything. Idk is this normal? is anyone else feeling this way? My friends think im crazy bc I'll have multiple girls no guy would dare turn down trying to get with me and I just do not care at all like, heck the past 3 months I've let some of the baddest women ive seen slide thru my fingers when they wanted it just because I could care less, it just feels like a hassle to me, to pretend like I give af get the girl over or go to her place all just for that what 10 min of pleasure then wanting them to leave and feel like a A hole booting them out or leaving their place right after. Just trying to see if anyone else is experiencing this or am I just a werido?
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Tooktheredpill 4y ago
You’re completely sane…even a lot earlier than most.
You’re thinking more with your big head. Keep doing what you’re doing and be unapologetically masculine. There are a new crop of 18-year olds every day.
fockedup 4y ago
Few years older, going through the same. I've had sex with a fair number of women and got out of a toxic relationship a few months ago, since then have almost zero drive to chase girls or let them chase me. Exact same thought process as you... just thinking about the effort in talking and hanging out to smash doesn't appeal to me. I've been thinking lately how I'm a lot less horny and being horny used to be a driver for me to chase girls. Not sure if it's because my standards are higher or something else going on.
Dunno about you but this has been a breath of fresh air for me. I've been putting all my time into work, hobbies, finances, and have been really solidifying what I like about life and what I want to pursue in life. I feel wayyy better compared to this time last year when I was a gigacoomer going on 4-5 date per week.
Maybe it's because I'm on a pretty large cut (lost 20lb+ in ~3 months), but I'm also on TRT and dialed in on my diet and feel amazing in all areas except lowered libido.
unodostres7 4y ago
I had the same feeling a few yrs ago when me and my LTR split but this is different idk I guess its a higher power telling me to focus on the important stuff
Kloi 4y ago
You've probably slept with a good number of women, had at least one toxic relationship. Not that all women are bad, just the fact they all exhibit these traits to some degree. Women really are a hassle. Even the good ones take work to maintain a positive relationship with. You've clearly got goals and are consumed by your priorities in life. You're about the same age I was when ONS lost their appeal, sounding like if that's what you wanted, you could have it.
Your standards, along with your expectations from/for women are probably higher than they use to be. The quality isn't there with most women, hence that lack of desire to pursue. I'm not talking about physical appearance but what's past that.
I am the prize, why should I be wasting time on this bitch? Is kind of where my heads at now. Feeling fairly similar to yourself. Once in the blue moon I have the desire to go be cute at the pumpkin patch but doing that with some random pump and dump feels futile and I don't have the time for something more serious, just to really want it once or twice a month.
unodostres7 4y ago
They are a huge hassle wether its a LTR or just a plate it does take some real time/energy to manage either of them and im at the point where I just don't care to do it. And yea it is some one that perception "I am the prize" and also I think it comes from a raised awareness to what really matters or gaining higher consciousness...But yeah glad we relate brother.
Escapethecity 4y ago
I'm there as well. ONSs are basically formulaic and unfulfilling, and finding something close to a unicorn to actually put work into isn't easy, and even if you do everything right shit still goes awry. I have cuties chatting me up and I...feel...nothing. girls that would have turned me into a puddle years ago are now puddles at my feet and I just want to walk away. Navigating masks, vaccines, politics and the social vibe in general is enough to discourage any man with a brain, and even if you do get laid, you gotta navigate the postlay emotional shit and leave her feeling good while you slip out the back. At this point I say make prostitution legal, creepy dudes won't harass women as much, working men get their needs met, no drama, and women would be inclined to behave cause if they don't, we won't need to put up with their shit.
Women need to become ladies again, with grace and charm and poise, not sloven shebeasts with entitlement complexes
Intrepid_Place53900 1 4y ago
Finding a woman today worth putting effort into for a LTR is very hard and getting worse.
Even as they hit their 40's, so many have this entitlement air, attitude. They don't realize they aren't worth much, only to dad bod beta's maybe.
They are out there though. Find one, train her to be better. But, it never stops, you still have to keep them in line. I'm hoping my girl gets even lower in terms of effort over time. She's very low effort/drama but the older I get, I have zero tolerance. We'll see how it works out. I don't mind being alone.
I can get girls easy, I'm old but jacked for my age and above avg looks. But I'm not interested in many.
Corneliuscaruso 4y ago
It could be a hit to your libido from being shredded. Watched mpmd on yt say this. One guys goal was to get shredded for a show, after the show he had himself tested and saw either reduced test levels or libido, I can't remember. He said for healthy libido it's best to stay
unodostres7 4y ago
na man I've been training since I was 12, I've had this physique for years its nothing "new" I've don't to my body or training. But If someone did cut a lot to get shredded I could see that happening.
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unodostres7 4y ago
wise words friend thank you
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unodostres7 4y ago
Could be some life crisis going on idk good suggestions tho
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