Me: 24 yo M Her: 24 yo F I'll try to make it as short as humanly possible. I've kind of liked this girl for some years now, never did make much a move. I had an LTR at the time she had one as well. I broke up with my ex gf in 2019 she broke up with her ex bf 2020. About 5 months ago (before I discovered TRP, the rational male, chateau heartiste, etc) we started talking a bunch and I did my AFC beta sniper mentality move. Set up a date, didn't even have the nerve to kiss her and then told her over text that i would've liked to, to which i received the typical "i don't see you like that" "let's just be friends" whatever answer. At the time I was just dabbling into trp and i basically did a takeaway without knowing it. Muted (not blocked) her social media. Stopped talking to her at all, I OVERTLY rejected her friendship offer. about a month passed and she came around by herself, actively texting me, pursuing me, we started talking a lot and I mean A LOT. She ended up telling me she saw me in another light now, that she liked me, she said a lot of romantic stuff. We met again about 2 weeks ago, we literally cuddled and made out like 15 year olds til 7 am at my place and had sex (she told me I made her orgasm without me ever asking). Fast forward to today she basically said that she enjoys being with me, she would like to repeat what happened but she felt like it was all or nothing with me and that she didn't like going "all in" at this point in her life. She told me that she had doubts and didn't know very well what to do and maybe today she'd want to meet me and tomorrow she wouldn't and the next day she'd miss me. TLDR; "the best i can offer is we do whatever I want when I want it" so I said i'd think it over.

I really like the girl, she's easy a 9 in the looks department, she's one exam away from becoming a doctor. I'm 3 exams away from becoming an engineer So my decision is basically to tell her NO. That I'm okay with no strings attached but that this amount of uncertainty I don't like nor I'm comfortable with, and I'd rather end it here. Tell her to not text me so it's basically another takeaway, I'm going with it not with the intention of her coming back but just having standards and self respect for myself.

Now the questions: 1- Do you guys think it's the correct decision? 2-In the event of her coming back around saying she changed her mind or whatever bullshit hypergamous excuse she might come up with, I'm guessing me accepting her back again would just be giving away my frame, wouldn't it? would there be a way in which I didn't?

Thanks.