So, I was talking to someone (A guy) and we were talking about shit tests, He is a Dating coach. I was just talking to him online.
I've read the Illimitable Men's guide to shit tests.
So he asked me, "If a chick says "Do you have a girlfriend?" What do you say?
I said, "I can simply lie and say "Yes, I have a girlfriend(blah blah)" even if I don't have a girlfriend".
To which he said this: "Yes, you can lie, but then you have to deal with the negative consequences of that lie. And why would you lie about having a girlfriend anyway? Aren't you trying to seduce her? Most women don't want to play second fiddle or help a guy cheat, so by saying you have a girlfriend you're just making your chances worse. Plus you'll look like a complete and idiotic asshole if she finds out you lied, which is typically just a matter of time. You will also likely have hurt her feelings and now given her potentially lasting trust issues that may stay with her long after you stopped interacting with her. And then she might go tell every woman she knows that you're a liar. If you get a girlfriend at some point, this woman might reach out to your girlfriend on social media and tell her how you're a lying manipulating asshole. So yeah, you can lie. If you're okay with all the potential backlash and worse chance of succeeding."
This guy is very popular in the dating scene but isn't his take opposite to that of RP? Isn't "Do you have a girlfriend?" translates to "Are you pre-selected"?. So how come it will lower my chance of succeeding?
Thanks.
shootinglikekobe 4y ago
Simple shit test. I always say "Ya a few".
thermodynamic 4y ago
i try to give a vague answer that implies I may be seeing other girls. the best answer to all of these is the one that makes the girl feel like she has competition without explicitly lying. " i may or may not" with a mischievous smile is good.
TestMan 4y ago
You wrote the answer yourself in the paragraph above. ;)
Having that settled; not having a girlfriend right at the instant when it is asked to you does not make you worth less. What matters is how you say it and react afterwards. You can lie, but that will result in the consequences written in your post. You can say no, and have panic in your eyes. She will sense that and there you are, the beta billy virgin.
OR
You just take it calm, and say "No, not at the moment" or "Not a long term one".
It is not even a shit test, it is so small, it is not worth calling it a shit test.
I got it asked one time, here is how it went (The girl was in a friendgroup):
She: "So do you got a girlfriend?"
Me: "No, not at the moment"
She: "Awwww im sure it will be fine" (like if I wanted one really bad, THIS is the real shit test)
Me: "Its already fine, not looking for a longterm one, just something more casual or one-time and then its time for somebody else" (Be cautious when you say "then its time for somebody else", it can be too arrogant, so you might wanna skip that piece mostly)
You had to see the glare her eyes man, she didn't really like that answer (because they want commitment)
She: "Why not long term? Isn't it good to be a team?"
Me: "Ofcourse, but I am young and want to explore myself" (See what I did there? I used woman language against themselves, she couldnt say anything else than to agree)
Me: "But you are young too, so, can I have your number and wanna go to Halloween Market tonite?" (Was last year)
She said sure, and I fucked her somewhere in that week and then ghosted her, but she didnt seem to mind. Neither did I.
TestMan 4y ago
I grew up with my mom and 2 sisters and one little sister. I got redpilled since primary school. I love them very dearly though, but I know every trick in the book.
Sometimes my sisters get mad at me and I can just say what they want to say to me (at the same moment that they want to say it to me), making them even more angry more, because I know all their tactics (shaming, you dont know me, screaming my name)
I gotta say, growing up without a father also gave me low T i think and i was very skinny etc, but I do crossfit for a few years and now I have more muscle. I showed my progress to my mom and sister not long ago and I saw their eyes widen open and they became more submissive for a reason, sister asks if I want food so I can 'grow even more' (her words). I was a simp for a long time.
Idk why I wrote this comment, but then you at least know the person who gave you a tip
Philippe01 4y ago
This is the most A&A shit test you can receive, probably after the “ do you say that to all the other girls” I would respond like : -Do you have a girlfriend? -Yes 4 of them and we live in the same house all together, they are super cute Similar responses also have worked wonders.
BabyUareSoSexy 4y ago
lol at this cringe dating coach. This is a basic shit test where you use A&A.
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
“Do you have a girlfriend?”
Answer: “I’m currently dating and having fun. Haven’t found the right girl yet.”
Or if you’re honestly not looking for a GF, just reply with “I’m just dating and keeping my options open.”
The above responses are if you’re wanting to be honest. If you’re just trying to bang then feed them a dream, but that shit can backfire like the coach said. You also need to be careful too because in some jurisdictions, if a woman says you lied to her and she slept with you because of said lie, she can press charges. Whether she’d be lying or not, it’ll make your life hell.
Go the honest route man. Pussy has never been so easy to get. These sluts are giving it away, even to mediocre dudes of average height (anecdotal).
RealityHaise 4y ago
I think I can say “I am currently dating and having fun, Keeping my options open” and then I can proceed with telling them a High value story about my me and ex (of-course if they ask). (Based on a true story/Not a lie about ex).
They will probably ask what happened or why did you break up.To which I do have a perfect response.
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
Don’t talk about exes. Tell her “I don’t kiss and tell” while smiling if she presses you.
And if for some reason you DO mention an ex, make sure you say positive things, then immediately change the subject to something else light and fun.
Don’t go the route of feeding her some “high value” story. That’s too try hard and they’ll smell it a mile away. That’s approval-seeking crap.
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RealityHaise 4y ago
I wanted ask one last thing, These things I am asking are because I read "Mystery Method", Despite it being outdated in 1st world countries it is pretty good for 3rd world country (From where I am, not many people know about "game").
That is why I asked this question, Mystery says 'Neg and DHV' when you're in a set, and never DHV the target alone as it can come as bragging, but Most woman I will be approaching here will be single targets standing somewhere around the mall alone (for example). So I will automatically have to drive the convo in such a way where I can plant my story without appearing Braggy. So, How should I DHV if I can't feed high value?
Can you also explain the "I don't kiss and tell" part? English is not my first language.
I think I should have posted this as the question on the forum, Will post it later.
SeasonedRP 2 4y ago
Say something sarcastic. "Sometimes." "I'm not sure, I can't remember." "As in girlfriend, singular? No." The main thing is not to look thrown off by the question or like the kind of guy who rarely has girlfriends and is desperate for one. The actual response isn't as important.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Well, he's not wrong... he just doesn't understand game. There is actually a game where you lie and say you have a gf/wife. The guy who wrote "The Game" used it one time on live TV to game a chick(Jessica Alba) who knew he's a pickup artist gaming her. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hC0hrqbhx5M