So, i started working in a company 4 months ago and there's a guy that started at the same time with me. He's the "edgy" kind of person, makes dark humor jokes all the time, jokes about killing himself etc. The thing is, this past week he was very depressed so i asked him what was wrong and eventually he opened up to me and said his GF of 6 years broke up with him (they're 23 years old). Now i see the "killing myself" jokes as something serious. In his mind he wont find love again, because she is the one and only, to him, he will never forget her. He will not try to forget her and focus on himself or maybe meeting new people, he really believes in love and all that shit. The worst of all is...they still text each other all the time, she's still getting her share of validation. Nothing that i say, changes his mind so, how can i help this guy? She won't go back to him, that's for sure so he will end up killing himself, im sure of it.
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coiso 4y ago
I think he defenitly did.
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
Buy him a copy of The Rational Make and give it to him. Let him know that book has helped you to understand women and men and you think it could help him a lot. Then, it’s up to him. That’s all you can do, and if you haven’t read it, get your own copy too and read it.
coiso 4y ago
I don't know if he would read it. I showed him a part of trp handbook, about a guy saying his wife cheated on him and listed topics where we should be careful with women and I asked him if anything there was familiar to him, he said yes but started saying she was different, women aren't all the same, etc.
Tooktheredpill 4y ago
Just buy him a copy. He may not read it or at least not immediately. Once he hits rock bottom he’ll be looking for answers. At least your conscience will be clean because you will have lead the horse to water.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Maybe befriend him. Guys get isolated from other men by women and then kill themselves. Especially after the guy has invested heavily into one woman.
coiso 4y ago
He only plays video games and watches anime all day. Know, he doesn't do any of that, just lays in bed. I tried to convince him to play video games with me, going out with me in the weekend to get some drinks and he doesn't want to do anything.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Tell him you know how to get her back and then make him go on a long walk with you in the sunshine and tell him the truth about women and how he's been lied to about what they want.