While reading sidebar material and disappearing down rabbit holes on parts on the manosphere I found this article
https://illimitablemen.com/2014/05/08/the-suffering-of-the-lost-boys/
This was a major eureka moment on why the fuck Im such a beta train wreck but was also able to get short term relationships in my 20s that women would bounce from. In every case partners would start off liking how attractive I am and then would figure out I was a clingy bitch and break up as soon as they could. Recently this happened for me in about a week. Obviously I have abandonment issues that manifest as a clinginess. Ive been starting to hit the gym so I can start to build self esteem so I can stop wishing I was dead everyday, but what should I be doing to address my other problems?
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Every person has the capacity to provide a wonder to the world, but pressure makes diamonds, and that's why us here at red pill provide the cold, hard truth and let you decide your path. Know that you do not walk alone, but you do walk amongst the strongest men alive and we have honor. We help our brothers to make them stronger, not weaker.
You're no longer a lost boy. You've found your tribe. We've all been you or a similar version. Hitting the gym is a good start but I don't know what your other problems are so I can offer no advice. Keep reading the side bar. It's a lot of material and has been developed for decades but it works.
bjjneck 4y ago
Good job recognizing it, self awareness is key to self improvement. It will take time, just make conscious steps and recognize these certain emotions. In your case if you start feeling clingy, take a step back and think of what you should do instead of acting out a certain behavior. People stay the same because they have the same habits. Changing your habits will change who you are. Make not being a clingy bitch your new habit. It might be tough at first but every positive habit is tough at first.
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Hanscheezburger 4y ago
The article already mentioned and linked to another one on how you can repair it https://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/
Professor-Drill 4y ago
This website is gold