One concept i've found interesting recently is the idea that the best relationships come when the man is at least 1-2 SMV points above the girl. If you're not attracted to someone two points below you that's your prerogative, but the idea is these girls will be more loyal.
The reason I bring this up is to discuss the phenomenon of leveling up in your personal life, and attracting girls who previously were not as into you. I've experienced this a few times (particularly with older women) and I believe someone else posted something like this:
Girl sees you as cute but nonthreatening for a time. You separate (school, work, life, etc.) and improve on your own journey. Now you come back more muscular, richer with more pussy musk and now she's wildly attracted to you.
In the above scenario, do you all think it's best to fuck and take advantage of your newfound status or move on? I tend to default to moving on but if you run into the girl on some truly random shit then it seems salty not to fuck just because she denied you in the past.
In my experience, even if you beat the pussy up thoroughly, she'll still see you as you were before. It takes a lot of time and effort to change someone's perception of you, especially if their ego was based on their perception of you as somehow beneath them. I've also noticed they'll continually remind you of it and shit test you incessantly.
Anyone experienced something similar and have feedback?
whytehorse2021 4y ago
SMV is a perception for women. As a man, your sexual imperative is to impregnate as many women as possible. Fuck the past, if the pussy is accessible... fuck it.
pfeilmacher 4y ago
Agreed. Higher SMV girls are great lays, but they're just so entitled and take too much work to deal with.
jriver11 4y ago
Definitely hard to regain frame there. Either fuck her right away or don't fuck her at all.
pfeilmacher 4y ago
I always fuck them right....whether she's a 6 or a 9. But the 9s are always looking to branch swing.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 4y ago
yes, that's the theory, a girl near your SMV, ideally 1 below, not more than 2 and she has to make up for it in RMV the lower she is from you.
You are kind of taking a , you ignored my weaker/lower value self, why should I reward you with my better self? That's weak.
If she interests you or you just want to nail her, do it. Do what you want, but not because you are butthurt.
Yes, if you have history, it's hard for them to see you different. But, the younger you are, it should be more accepted. If they remind you of your past and shit test you, next them. Don't put up with that shit, you gave them an opportunity. You are the prize, they just lost.
hannulv 4y ago
This is the entire MRP experience. Changing the dynamic with a girl is hardmode. It can be done, but its not for the lighthearted, and you usually get better results with a new girl.
I really think age is an important factor in whether a girl will see you different when she meets you again later. If you met when you were 25 and now you're 27, its unlikely. If you met when you were 14 and now you're 25, its like meeting someone new.
johnnysmallseed 4y ago
Wasting large amounts of energy for one girl Vs getting another girl of better value with less. I think the answer is clear. And I wouldn't date a low value girl to get compliance.
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